du u envy people whu enjoy life?

India
July 11, 2008 2:08am CST
i have often felt iam not able to enjoy life to the maximum whne i see many of my friends having a blast, i feel pathetic, this is despite the dfact that i go for family tour to farawy destiations every year
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
I always do envy people who enjoy life. I'm not saying my life is pathetic. But difinitely it's not a bed of roses. I envy people who live in big houses. Owned expensive cars. Shopping for expensive clothes and other luxury. Those are the things that I can't afford to have now. But i'm working on it. I want all my dreams to happen someday.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
16 Jul 08
Think to of their big house payment, big car payment and big insurance payments. Credit card payments. Did you ever notice that the more you make the more you need? Just be satisfied with what you have and more of what you want will come easier.
@leo2727 (138)
• India
17 Jul 08
defeitely, but sure i love my life too, cos i am very happy in my life
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
16 Jul 08
Why dont you just get in there and have fun with them? I believe it all has to do with the power of possitive thinking. You need to train yourself to throw away negitive thoughts and replace then with possitive. You are the only one that can do this. When you see your friends having a blast. And you feel the negitive vibe you need to stop! and tell yourself how negivtive it is. Then replace it with how can i join in with them? Thats the possitive vibe. Think of the Bob Marley tune, "Possitive Vibrations". Get the possitive vibes flowing and it WILL change your life around for the good.
@shilpa_p (198)
• India
11 Jul 08
I wouldn't say that i envy people who enjoy life but i can't say i sometimes envy the people who don't have to do much to enjoy life.They grow up in lavish households where they don't have much to do and have no choice but to have a good time.They have the perfect friends and the perfect clothes.Yes,it does get to me sometimes that they seem to have it all.I've had nothing but a hard life right fron the time i was born.My dad passed away when i was a month old and things have been only getting worse for me.But i'm still going on.I was just thinking the other day how my friends spend their time and energy choosing where they want to spend their vacations and how they can develop their interests by taking courses they want.On the contrary i have bigger things to worry about-most importantly how i can earn so i can stop living in a leased place and have a place of my own where i can live peacefully with my mom and sister.So at times i do believe that i envy them.What they think are difficult decisions to make,are like a joke for us because we have bigger problems.