have you ever felt so many times that you feel rejected eventhough you're not?
July 11, 2008 10:06am CST
..there are many times that i feel like nobody seems to care for me..it's just like i don't exist..because sometimes i feel that my presence is not important to them, unless i did something wrong...waah i hate it?...what will i do?
11 Jul 08
Don't worry, no one needs anyone except when they need something for themselves. Every one in this world is alone, but if you do want that people take you seriouly and pretend to care for you, then you must work hard and become something that people think that you can help them in some way. Then, everyone would try to get near you.
11 Jul 08
This is human nature. Then, we should also look into ourselves, introspect. Somewhere down the line, we are also selfish. We also want to be near someone or another for a reason. There are some people who don't do it for any material gain, but still they do it because they believe that selfless deeds would make them happy, isn't it?
11 Jul 08
hello rave700! you will never know unless you ask or find out. i am in the same page as you are and i know exactly how it feels. i am the type of person who is pretty much an introvert at first but once i feel comfortable with the people around me i become the real person that i am. probably the reason why i feel i was rejected back then is because i was the only one who got promoted from my batch and the rest of my team mates (at work) already have this certain "level of friendship". i always had the feeling that they are talking about me, hated me for any reason, etc. when i had the guts, i actually approached them and asked if they hated me. i openly accepted their answers, both positive and negative comments. after that, i felt much better. i guess being 'yourself' makes a big difference. just keep it real and always ask when in doubt. i hope this helps! ;)