Have you ever felt in love with two people at the same time?

Philippines
July 12, 2008 9:25am CST
Sometimes people get confused about their feelings. Have you ever been in such situation wherein you think you are in love with two people at the same time? What's the factor that will make you choose "the one"?
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10 responses
@Avinigav (238)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
No, I haven't. Because I have a commitment to kill feelings to love someone else besides my only one girlfriend. Everytime that chance came to me, I avoid and get away from those chance because I dont want trapped in a complicated situation and I want to love her with all my heart :)
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
me too i experience that... but in my case i always inlove with about i think 4... or something i dont know but i got pleanty of girls in my pocket... so i dont think loving with one is enough for me...
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I have had feelings for more than one person at the same time before. I cannot say that I was actually in love with both of them at the same time though. I loved them both but was actually was only in love with only one of them.
@carlysle (271)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
love?? i dunno.. but like.. definitely.. somehow people say that "you'll just know what to do when the time comes" i really dont have the exact answer because im just as confused as how to make THAT decision.. it takes a lot of thinking and feeling.. :D
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
Hi berryliciousme, i have never experienced that, falling inlove with two people at the same time, I think when you came to that situation its really hard to handle. because you love them both and its hard to choose between them. i dont know what to say, i think its just really hard to happen to fall inlove with two person, God gave us only one heart because we just need to love one. thanks and have a nice day
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
13 Jul 08
uhhh yes! but i still select the responsible and matured minded.that time was easy for me.
@mikokre (132)
• Nigeria
12 Jul 08
There isn't any factor.You know what i'll just do?If i love them both,Then i dont need any of them.But if cant leave them both,i'll just keep them and let them know i love both of them and dont want to loose any.They'l sort it out them selves.May be their action'l tell which you should be with.Or may be you should just keep both to your self little or not known to them.But its not a good thing you know?
@vera5d (4005)
• United States
12 Jul 08
I think it's possible to like two people at the same time, but to have true love with two people would be difficult. It takes a lot of work & commitment and you have to give 100% of yourself in a relationship - if you're giving only 50% because the other half is going to someone else it won't be too happy. The deciding factor would have to be which one do you see being the healthiest, most fulfilling, and the best for the long term? I'm sure it's not an easy choice, but usually your heart will take you to the right place. You could always flip a coin, lol.
@wild_ran (30)
• India
12 Jul 08
Well yes, i went through the experiences. and the factor that make me choose the one i live with is that i married to her before a mass.
@aj2webs (34)
• India
12 Jul 08
Hi One can fall in love with 2 or even people. in this situation both the persons are important(if not you are not in love). You can not numbered them as no1 and no2. they are on the same level. In this condition do not choose any one. love them. Just wait and watch. after some time you will get your answer. So don't confused time will tel you the right answer.