If you have a problem with a friend or vice versa,would you discuss it or...

United States
July 12, 2008 3:48pm CST
would you rather just keep it to yourself?.... omg i just dont understand what is so hard about discussing the problems the problems you have with your friends...example, a friend of mine and i,went to the grochery store. we met a old friend of mine... he asked how we met, we started explaining,well i said we met thorugh a friend of ours she turned out to be psychco so we were no longee friends, i said bu my firend was better firends then me and this girl they were like butt budy's.. Okay so it comes out today that she thought i was meaning butt budy's in a mean way... so i n told her well why didnt you tell me you felt that way... her responce "its just not me". i said well when u are friends with someone, and you have a problem you tell them. talk about it. and then get over it.... Because if you dont tell your frined you have a problem and your just going aorund like everything is okay.. thats being fake. am i not correct??.... so tell me, would you rather discuss your problems with the friend, or just go around keeping it to yourself acting as if nothing happend?.. thanks in advanced
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• United States
13 Jul 08
yeah to me thats being fake.. to me your friends cant fix what they dont know they did wrong.. that is why i make my friends promise me that if i did anything that offended them they tell me as soon as possible because i hate it when people just keep it to themselves and then it just gets them more upset etc..
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@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
12 Jul 08
I will always discuss a problem to a friend..It will be healthy in a relationship if both are open.. hiding something and controlling what you really want to express will always lead to a bad ending, like people tend to share it to a different person and this person will share it to everyone else, stories will be edited and added, so, it will make the situation more complicated!
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