You run into someone you admire, what would you say?

@saierchok (1294)
United States
July 13, 2008 12:33pm CST
you are walking to school or work on a beautiful day and suddenly to pump into someone you secretly admire, and he/she smiles at you.. how would you react?
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9 responses
• China
13 Jul 08
I will be very excited and come up to him/her immediately, and tell him/her my feeling towards him/her~
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
and that would be the right thing to do we should never keep it hiden..
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• Malaysia
13 Jul 08
1st my heart jumping faster, and i will act like nothing and smile back to her. after act like nothing walk pass her.
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
ohh you must be loving that person alot for you to react this way.. but I wouldn't recommend backing off.. you got a golden chance here buddy so go for it!
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• Canada
13 Jul 08
I would invite hem out for a cup of coffee, so we could sit and chat.
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
you're a straight forward person.. I like that!! directly asking out, no hesitation, no heart beats.. you're a mature person who knows what she wants good for you!
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@rbailey83 (1401)
• Canada
13 Jul 08
unfortunately i seem to lack the confidence to talk to others, especially someone i secretly admire, i would probably smile back, say hi, and keep going on my way
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
which you gotta change buddy! believe me , nothing is better than a man who knows what he wants... and being shy will not be of much help I guess! practice a bit!
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@rbailey83 (1401)
• Canada
13 Jul 08
yeah i have been working on that for a while, it has gotten better but not where i want to be yet. Thanks for the advice =D
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
never mind dude! I got that advice my self at a point of my life.. and to tell you the truth it is effective!!
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@msedge (4012)
• United States
15 Jul 08
I must be feeling in heaven to see him and i would smile back at him.That would be the start of my beautiful day.
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
16 Jul 08
but what if he pays no attention at all.. on the contrary he acts rude and blames you for the accident? how would your heaven be then? sorry for spoiling the dream
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@msedge (4012)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Well if that is the case then i will ignore him.He is not the only ,an in this world anyway...
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
27 Jul 08
I bet he isn't the only one after all! sorry for spoiling the dream hehehe
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
Well, I could put it this way. I divide into two when I meet someone I really really admire. The first one, which is mostly almost subconscious, says "Oh my God, it's her! She smiled! What to do? what to say?" in a panicky way. This is where the loss of control starts and makes a tendency to slip out on a conversation and just babble most of the time. The other one is the controller. I try to control the situation by thinking rational and realistically. I just let it control my honesty and have a good chat. It should balance out the other one and make things natural and normal. After the conversation, I admit, I usually tend to analyze how it went. Was it a good conversation? Was I acting normally? did I give any clues whatsoever? Well that's all, take care bro. c'ya!
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Gosh!! you worry too much dude!! my subconcious would tell me, I knew it!! she was salking me all the way.. I knew she liked me as well and then I'll start a conversation knowing she'll love me back!
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• Philippines
13 Jul 08
Hey, you got it exactly. I applaud your accuracy on that. Yeah, I do worry most of the time. That could be a reason why I take more effort to control it. I do try to be as simple as I can but I'm choosy about the circumstance. =) Thanks!
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
never mind friend .. we all were shy at one point,, well not all of us george bush was never shy or ashamed.. lol any way try on practising to be more open and less worrying.. maybe you can find a girl who loves you enoough to understand your personality and help you evolve.. or a good male friend would help you out with some tips.
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@rajeshfgh (1627)
• India
13 Jul 08
I would try to strike a conversation and know the person better. I am sure, being a shy person it won't be that easy for me, but I'll try my best. I would try to find out her feelings for me
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
13 Jul 08
yeah buddy go for it! hit her with your super smart flirts and blush her into hooking up with you.. no place for shy men these days..
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@Amanda81587 (3046)
• United States
15 Jul 08
Well my face would turn red and I would probably be stunned. Wanna bump into me?
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
16 Jul 08
actually I would love to... just to see how red you're gonna become.. though I think you'll just punch me in the face and tell me to fix my glasses!
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• United States
16 Jul 08
HAHA I would never punch you in the face. I can't promise anywhere else. haha just kidding. Just to see how red I would get??? oh thanks!
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
16 Jul 08
OK OK! don't blush now! over with this discussion now!
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@cripfemme (7719)
• United States
11 Feb 09
I have often met people I admire at conferences and the like and all too often I stumble over my tongue which is caused more by awestuckness than my speech impediment. I'll have something clever to say, meet the person, and lose the ability to speak for several moments. Then they're gone, and I feel like I missed my chance.