At what age did you have your first relatioship?

@kharen (1488)
Philippines
July 14, 2008 3:16am CST
At what age did you have your first relationship? Did it last? What age did you have your most serious one and how long did it last?
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@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Honestly I thought that I would be SSB (Single Since Birth) until I turn 25 luckily I have a girlfriend when I was 20. She's still my girlfriend until now and we're happy with our relationship.
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
wow! That's really great.. ^^ Best wishes.. are you already married? ^^
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• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Nope I'm not yet married. I'm still planning for it taking my time to set things smoothly before that day.
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
yup,have to settle things first. Have a steady status in life then go for your goal..^^
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@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 08
Well,i have my first relationship at the age of 18 and this relationship carry till now and i won't let it end.Many of you might think that start a relationship at the age of 18 will be a bit late but as for me i think it is the right time because most of the relationship happen before 18 is just a puppy love and won't go any longer.I have to admit that i'm serious in relationship and i won't waste my time for puppy love.
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
That's right. There's really no age in a relationship. Your age though won't tell you that this is the right time. Don't go too fast on anything. Just let things flow. You can't say you won't let it end. There's a lot of things to still happen. Don't expect too much because when things happen, and i'm hoping it won't happen to you,they just happen and when they end and you've expected too mjuch from it. You'll be hurt a lot. God bless you on your relationship.. keep trust goin' on and have faith.. Take care..^^
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
16 Jul 08
I think most people in the states would not think that eighteen is too old to start a good relationship! If anything, eighteen may be considered still too young!
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
15 Jul 08
My first real relationship started when I was sixteen! It was probably the most serious relationship that I ever had! It lasted almost two years, until we broke up when he went down the shore with the "boys"! I have no idea what he did after that, he had been attending the University and I saw his sister at school, when she told me that he was still willing to help me with my homework! My life spun out of control after that, with one thing after another happening to me that I could not control and did not know what to do about! I got married two years later, and life quieted down a lot. It seems that women need to have a man to protect them and fend off ne'er-do-wells that prey on women who seem to be available! but let a man say a woman is his, going steady or married, and other men will back off and leave her alone!
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
Sometimes, it really does feel great when someone says your his. But sometimes men also crosses the line and go act stupid and very,very possessive than sometimes they leave no space for you,right? Great that you've already have someone to protect you and call you his own. God Bless..
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
16 Jul 08
happy anniversary! - A card from my husband!
Yes, it is nice to have a man! Although I still have to protect myself! lol
@KellyMate (362)
15 Jul 08
my first relationship, that was seriousish was when i was 14!! It was terrible, i mean im 17 now and so is my current boyfriend. but when i was 14 i hated that relationship, my bf was controlling, violent and really just negative! Im glad that now ive found the right guy, and i think im going to be spending a lot more time with this boyfriend :)
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
well, i hope you already find the one. Have a good relationship.. God Bless!
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@mykmari_08 (2466)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
My parents, particularly my mom, wanted me to finish my studies first before jumping into a relationship. I tried hard to obey her wish and I'm glad that I was successful at it. I had my first relationship when I was already working with my first job after I graduated from college. He was my former officemate and he was older by four years than I am. I consider it as a serious one because his parents knew me and at the same time, I already introduced him to my parents and relatives in the province. Aside from this, our relationship lasted for more than three long years. Due to unexpected events, I broke up with him. I was really hurt then. But after some time, I met my husband. Somehow, he was able to heal my broken heart that time. After more than a couple of years going steady, we decided to get married. At present, we are married for more than five years already and God has given us a loving daughter for a child. She's turning three next month. She's the angel in our life and family. She's the reason why we are trying hard to do all debt-paying measures and saving so as to give her a bright future and be able to send her to school for her education.
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
That must have been tough. having broken up after having that really long relationship. Good thing the right man came along for you. Advance happy birthday to your daughter. ^^ Hope your relationship be more stronger! God Bless!
• Mauritius
14 Jul 08
am just having mine recently!! am 19... iv dated other guys before..but this one seems to be a serious one!! it has been lasting for the last 6months
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
good for you. But still, you have to be careful. Leave some love to yourself and don't expect too much on your recent relationship. God Bless.. ^^
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@rbailey83 (1401)
• Canada
16 Jul 08
i was 15, it lasted just over 2 years
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@katsmeow1213 (29047)
• United States
14 Jul 08
I have had crushes on boys since preschool. The first time I ever called a boy my boyfriend would have been 2nd grade. Obviously these were just stupid little things that never meant anything or amounted to anything. I had my first serious relationship when I was 19. We were together over a year, and even moved in together at one point. It was a bad relationship though. 6 months after we broke up is when I began dating my husband. That was over 7 years ago.
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
So you have been spending 7 years with your husband already? That's good for you..