Why does a man have to look for another woman if he has one already?

Right off the bat, it should be mentioned that women cheat too. This behavior is NOT confined to men. It goes both ways. As for why men cheat, many reasons and it's impossible to know which one is the right one depending on the guy. Biology and natural instinct does play a part. Men instinctively have a need to mate with as many people as possible, to spread their seed around and create more offspring, to keep the species going. At the end of the day, we are just animals with natural instincts. While the man might not even recognize this as his reason himself. it does play a part in it. However, a man who's committed to a monogamous relationship has made a promise to STOP doing that, and he does have the willpower to turn away from those temptations .. but refuses to do so. Then you have the other reasons. - Bad relationship - Wife doesn't satisfy him sexually - Wife doesn't satisfy him emotionally - The need for variety - He's a jerk.

Yes.. I have this same questions as well. I am a lady and I get disappointed with some of the men who cant stay long with one woman. In my opinion, i think some men is not contented with just one woman, they like to venture out and try new relationship with different women. The 'visual' factor is very important to them and that is why is really hard to resist beautiful women. But somehow, more mature guys who have had enough fun and thrills tend to be able to stick to a relationship longer and is committed to settle down with the one he found is right!

It's a problem with our base nature that still lies deep within our subconscious even though we are now " civilized ".. For most species in the wild the females look for the male most likely to be able to provide & protect her offspring. She how no problem knowing for sure that her offspring are hers so she just looks to give them the best chance of survival & the best genes. Males of most species on the other hand have an instinct to mate with as many females as possible in order to insure that at least some of his genes are being passed on. Even if he does successfully attract a mate the offspring she bears my not necessarily be his. He could then be spending his time raising another males child & not his own. I'd recommend you do some research on lions. They're a very good & well documented example of what I'm talking about. While we as a species have become civilized & now look for only one mate those base instincts are still rooted at the back of our minds. Some people are just more likely to act on them than others.

HI lea, Most probably their relationship isn't that exciting, this men are not satisfied in some aspects like emotional and physical! So, they tend to search for another girl who will provide this to them...It's sad to know but very rampant in our society!

well maybe his not contented at all..Hmm..Or maybe he's into gaming.,playing with an innocent girls.,ughh..soo irritating.I hate those men who actually doing this!!

Man...that's a good question. I figured some guys just do it, because they don't know what they want, and aren't trying to be serious. Some I think they are afraid of committing to the wrong woman, so they kind of hoard a bunch of women, and see which one is right for them. I also think its a maturity thing. Men mature slower than women, and some of them just don't get it.

I honestly have no idea. I've never known a guy like that, much less been with one. Maybe it's just wanderlust? They just can't commit.

Ugh! I know! I've been wondering the same thing. Although I know a lot of guys who aren't like this, but compared to those who are, it's like five times more... I really don't get why they have to do this... I guess only a man could answer this question.

Just for change!

leateagee hi not all men look for other women when they have one,just some and they are jerks. I think these are men with very low self esteem who think if they can have one and get another on the side that makes them somebody, right, it makes them JERKS sith a capitol J. lol lo lol. all guys look at pretty women but they are happy with the woman they have most of them that is. myhusband used to say when guys quit looking at pretty women then its time to worry. he was really very faithful to me so I did not mind if he glanced at a pretty stranger, just so thats all he did lol lol lo

Hi leateagee, Don't you know? men are a strange creatures, they find a mate and happy for a while they get all the comforts and then get bored, then they are thinking can I still find one for a change and see what is like? I am still young and handsome? and they answer yes to themselves away they go and after they come back to their own mate. Men only have brains in one place and its not in their head, I know because my husband tried many years ago. Tamarafireheart.

I am married and look at other females when they dress well or when i see a female whos is got a great body. But that does not mean that my love for my wife has gone down a bit. God has created beautiful object to be admired that doesnt mean that coz you look at them you are cheating on the one girl that you already have. But if yes you crossed the line from looking to going and laying somebody other than your partner is wrong.

well sad to say it happens to the best of us. and i still don't know why any person would have to lie and cheat instead of being straight forward with that person.some people act like its a game and misleading different people with no morals whatsoever, that's basically start from. i think that anyone thats so stupid to the fact that, whats done in the dark comes to light.

i really hate it when guys act like that.my boyfriend just cant avoid looking at other woman even if his with me. im losing my patience sometimes. its so irritating. i know that im a great woman, but i still cant avoid to be insecure everytime he does that. wish i could poke his annoying eyes sometimes.lol.

Some people have trouble committing and after they've had 1 or 2 relationships it becomes a game to them. They get a high from seeing if they can make another conquest, not taking into consideration that there is another human being that is being hurt in the process. Most of these people are selfish and unless they get help they will continue to leave wounded people in their wake. Be kind to yourself and don't put up with this. You are worth someone having eyes for you only. REspect yourself. Hold out for someone who loves only you.

This is something that I have always wondered, too, and I am 53 years old. And especially men who get married and feel that they still need to look whether it is a week later or 20 years later. It seems the wife is the last one to know. If there is a problem,then the marriage or relationship should be over BEFORE he is looking again and not in the middle of whatever is going on with the first woman. I will say that there are women like that also but it seems, not like men.

wish I knew the answeer to this one as I know that there are many men out there whom are happily married but it seems they need some sort of ecitement or a 'risk factor' in their lives to keep them happy as for any other reason I couldn't tell you-littleowl

IDK! Wish i did know. My best guess is that its not in their nature to have one woman. All throughout history till this present day many men have more than one woman. Most men. I think when they have this law, one wife to one man, it goes against mans nature. So it results in extra marital affairs. I saw on history channel in the Amazon there is a Indian tribe that the woman has more than one husband. It is considered bad luck for her to have more than 2 children by one man. Being a female i think i would join that tribe.

they just cant satisfy with what they have and long eye, they might be getting everything at home yet they jus have to go ahead and do what they want and some women are to be blamed cause they know yet they still go ahead with a relation instead on saying no or run them, but i guess thats the inthing now a days. on each side they have to have another. cheers

Sometimes men who are looking for another woman even if he has already is because they want something new, like all the things you've mentioned. But sometimes it was a fault of a woman that's why some men looking with the other. Maybe the man felt that his girlfriend doesn't have time for him that's why they goofing around to catch some fish..haha!!(you know what i mean).