forbidden love

@myahw20 (1116)
Canada
July 15, 2008 4:07pm CST
Did you ever had forbidden love when you were young? or maybe even when you were a little older? How did you handle it? Are you still with the same guy or girl?
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@dmcollie (217)
• United States
15 Jul 08
I have to say YES. I was 14 and he was 16 when we started dating. My grandma was always taking me to see him. Because I was not allowed to date until I was 18. I thought it was true love. but I think he loved star wars more than me. So I dumped him after going with him for 3 years. I am so glad I am not still with him he is now 31 and is still living with his parents. :)
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@myahw20 (1116)
• Canada
20 Jul 08
Hehe wow. It's always nice to see how our old flames are after so many years hehe.
• United States
15 Jul 08
I did, when i was younger, my parent are very much againist dating some one of another color, and so was the town I lived in,Im pretty sure they wereall about white power. But i cant say for sure. Well anyways, a young african american boy moved into town and started going to my school. I was mostly attracted to him because he was different, not in the sense of color but everthing, he seemed more sure of him self then the other guys at my school, and it just made me weak in the knees. We dated for quite some time and my parents hated it, they wouldnt let me do anything but go to school and then come straight home.They hated the thought of me being with a colored,But im half native so i dont really see why they acted that way. About a year into are relationship he was killed in a hate crime, By some of the local high school kids. It broke my heart, i couldnt believe it, To this day i dont understand how people can be so closed minded about other races. I think we are all equal. and its how things should be. Also what made you ask this question.
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@myahw20 (1116)
• Canada
20 Jul 08
That is such a sad story. It would always hurt to lose someone you truly love. Hopefully you would keep him in your heart. I believe we should all be fair in love. As to why I ask the question, I had an almost forbidden love before that didnt work in the end anyways. It was sad butin the end I found someone better.
@KellyMate (362)
15 Jul 08
I had forbidden lust, obviously now looking back, i can see that it wasn't love, far from it lol! I was 14 and he was 18 :O Terrible! nobody approved! Im not still with him though, which is good for me, because he was abusive and just a total jerk!
@myahw20 (1116)
• Canada
20 Jul 08
Good for you that you learned. Hopefully you already found or will find the perfect guy for you hehe. Usually age should not be an issue but if the guy is a total jerk forget it. hehe.
@chej18 (915)
• United States
16 Jul 08
Yes i had it when i was young.I think 15 to 16 years old.He was so cute and he very good in some sport.He is in colloge that time and i was in highschool,graduating.My mother is afraid that if he continue courting me that i will lose attention to my study and all of my attention i would give it to him.BUt then he is really pushy and he tried to convinced my mother that he will help me w/ studying and also he will give me all the time i need to finish study. My mother doesnt want to see him everytime specially if he is passing by in our home to visit but my mother let him go inside but deep inside she doesnt want it.After a while she got used to it and he really made him realized that not all the young relationship can distracted each other goal. After awhile i grew up and more matured and i find out that i am not inlove w/ him.So we went into different way.He stop studying after that and i didnt saw him or i dont have news about him anymore.The last news i've heard is that he went into thier province and stay there to manage thier mango farm. And so sad that he stop studying..I feel so bad about it, that its because of me he need to go find himself.But i think right now he is happy man..I hope so ! hehe Greetings from Che!