How can a woman make a man happy!

July 15, 2008 7:40pm CST
This is a great problem for many woman, and man at least I think so. OK, maybe not for all woman, but there are a lot, who have problem of getting her man happy. I know that sometimes I do have a problem. Share with me your opinion. Not only woman , but man too. Maybe you man can tell us more about you and what is that you want from a woman?
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11 responses
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
Every woman should put this in mind. There's a saying " The best way to a man's heart is thru his stomach." This is true, I see lots of women doing this. Even you don't cook, You will have your way to learn the fashion of cooking, to get more attention from your hubby. They will really love you. So, calling all hubbies appreciate what your wives is doing. Even if it taste salty, don't get mad. You can say, "hon, this is good but next time, you can lessen the salt."
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16 Jul 08
It is a good one. But, you know what all man say, the way to the man heart is a little bit lower then stomach :) That is not my opinion, that is what they say.
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• Philippines
16 Jul 08
Yes Olive, It's the spice to add more excitement and to make it more flavorful and enjoyable. thanks for your comment.
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
16 Jul 08
The FIRST and MOST important rule is STOP NAGGING!!! Good God the man works his tail off all day and then he needs to come home and hear complaints? NO He should be allowed to come home to a peaceful environment. The problems will always be there and so will the solutions but nagging does NOTHING for a marriage. Also always try to look your best and be sexy and flirty and sweet. Have a nice meal ready and a good story line to go with it.
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• United States
16 Jul 08
I also agree with you rrdj71...I try not to nag about anything when he gets home, I know he hears enough complaints at his job everyday. I try to let him come home and unwind a bit, before I say anything. It helps to look your best, and be sweet and flirty, I also try to have a good meal ready for him when he gets here. Like I said in the other response, my husband is a simple man and it doesn't take much to make him happy, thats why I love him so.
@magojordan (3257)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
Well it depends what type of man do you want to make happy. Here are some suggestions though based on my experiences and observations. If a guy is the athletic type, he will be surely happy if you go with him to watch his favorite game whether on tv or live. Also if he is a player of a certain sport, go watch him play but don't overdo the cheering because his team mates might tease him. If he is the adventurous type, try to go with him on his travels, trips etc. Just don't complain too much if you're tired or becoming restless. If the guy is the intellectual type, an intelligent discussion often does the trick. Just be careful though if you really don't know the topic. In general men tend to be happy if their stomach is also full
• United States
16 Jul 08
I agree with you magojordan...I think it depends on what type of man your talking about. My husband is the outdoors type, so anytime he's able to go fishing or hunting makes him happy, and it makes him happy if I go along with him. I don't go hunting, but I do enjoy fishing, and we spend the day together out on the river. I try not to complain too much, but he can tell if I've had enough for the day..lol. Of course, he's happy when his stomach is full, and I try to make sure I have something ready for him when he gets home from work everyday...my husband is a simple man, it doesn't take much for him to be happy, thats why I love him so much.
@lost4eva (33)
• United States
16 Jul 08
There is nothing male or female can do to make a partner happy except just love them for who they are.. not what you want them to be :)
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• United States
16 Jul 08
I think the man has to be happy himself. That saying goes you have to make yourself happy first before you can make anyone else happy. Happiness comes from within. I think you can add to someone else happiness but you can make someone happy.
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• United States
16 Jul 08
First, welcome to MyLot. I hope you'll love it, as I do. Nobody can really make anyone else happy. Being a happy person yourself, though, is sort of contagious. If you know what his favorite things are, try to be sure they're around. Bring up new treats now and then. Most importantly, be the very best of friends. Good luck!
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@lilaclady (28277)
• Australia
16 Jul 08
Well I guess all men are different and require different things yo make them happy, from the men I have had in my life i feel feeding their egos is one thing but i also think the man himself must be happy within his own self, same as women, it shouldn't really be up to anyone else to make them happy....
@mandykaren (2044)
16 Jul 08
I am quite surprised at this discussion lool There is 3 things that make a man happy, make sure he gets those and he always be happy lool that is feed him well, way to mans heart is through his belly, the other thing he loves is football, so need to allow him to watch his favorite team without woman nagging him or interrupting and the other thing well i am sure you can guess it hahaha.. bedroom activity often.. Basically thats all a man needs to be totally happy.. :)))
• Turkey
16 Jul 08
yess true things about men.. but the women can be happy same things.. feed can be happy the women.. watch tv or dvd can be happy... bedroom activity can make happy... gifts..roses..rings...kisses...presents.. make happy women..but the men seay then women for be happy...:D
• Jamaica
16 Jul 08
The thing that women don't understand.is that most men tend to think with their smaller head.keep him happy in the bedroom and half your works done.but on a more realistic level.men like pampering just like a woman does.women tend to think that men are rough and therefore don't need affection.we do.A mans supposed to do almost anything necessary to keep the woman happy and the woman's supposed to do the same.a man likes when a woman will sometimes take the initiative and start the love making too.whatever you'd want for yourself as a woman (from a man} some men would like those things from you too.
@Marcola (2776)
• United States
16 Jul 08
As a male, basically all I want is for a female not to pass early judgment on me and try to see the good within me. Try and get to know me better, and treat me with respect. Be willing to give and compromise. Accept me for who I am and all my eccentricities.
@jdyrj777 (6563)
• United States
16 Jul 08
Each persons happiness is in their own hands. There are things that an indivial can do that their mate will be pleased with them. Each thing as indivial as the person. I think a person just wants someone who they are compatable with and shares interest. Someone they can trust. Live and let live. Just be yourself.