What do you think makes for a good friend?

@AnnaB7 (756)
United States
July 16, 2008 3:29pm CST
What do you look for in a friend? Also do you consider yourself a good friend to your friends why or why not. As for me, I try to always be a good friend by treating others as I would like for them to treat me, but a lot of times I really do not think I quite make it. Because I don't always have as much time for my friends as I would like,.I would like to have more time, but even if I did my friends may all be busy, I think the world we live in today is much to busy? Do you agree?
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@Mat_keane (236)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 08
Hai Anna, I think you are true. The world we live fully with crowded people. That why the world is too busy today.
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@AnnaB7 (756)
• United States
17 Jul 08
I think that some areas of this world is crowded but not every where is so crowded but I think our lives are crowded by the many things we all seem to want to do each day. Some of us are better at time management than others, it would be good if we could take time to really think about what is important in this life but we don't usually do that, instead we stay busy with everything we think is important, while we neglect our friends who may really be needing us at times but just don't call because they know we are busy, we are too busy for our own good these days,. Thanks for responding,
@suria5231 (147)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
One defination of a true friend is someone who knows all about you and still stand by you no matter what. He/She will be there for you whenever and however difficult the challenges you face. I believe that is what makes a good friend for me. If you really want to know who your true friends are.. you will find out very quickly when you find yourself in some kind of trouble . Only those who care for you as a true friend will be there for you to comfort you and offer their help.
@AnnaB7 (756)
• United States
17 Jul 08
I agree I have found out very easily who my true friends are and who are only there when I can do something to benifit them, I have many aquaintances that I may call friends but really they are only people I know, A true friend will stand by you whether you have money or whether you don't. also a true friend will lend a helping hand when you get in a mess or behind in your household chores instead of gossipping all over town about what a messy house you may have. A true friend is someone who will help you when your in a mess, and is also someone you can help when you find they are in a mess.
@Andyck (220)
• Indonesia
17 Jul 08
lol.. of course friend is all about life. i've read amny book about friendship and it tell me the way to success on ur life is making friend. u cannt life without friend...we are human being at all.But u know.. alot people in this world only have a few friends...coz it's difficult to comunicate with another and hard to trusting evryone-u cannt easly say that she/he was ur friend on ur first time meet them.
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16 Jul 08
A good friend is someone who sticks around through thick and thin...someone who gives you time whenever you feel like talking and is never selfish. a good friend is someone you can trust. =)
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@AnnaB7 (756)
• United States
17 Jul 08
I agree trust is something that is very important, I also think our friends should know they can trust us, and that we will be there for them. A friend is someone you can call at any time and they will not be mad. even if it's in the middle of the night, (but I would not do that unless I really really had an emergency)
@koolkate (241)
• Bahrain
17 Jul 08
I agree that the world is busy, but I think that the key of an awesome friend ship is honesty and loyalty.
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@successlog (3172)
• China
17 Jul 08
hello friend, i always treat my friend with my genuine heart.AS long as i can do something for my friends,i will donate myself to do it voluntarily.I know what i should fo for my friends whcih they would also do for me like this..Even though now we don't have enough time to play and chat with each others,but we also hold our friendship tightly.Maybe sometimes a text message,only short chatting by phone,or a meal.we all can get comfot from our friends.. Good luck to you.
@adthacker (196)
• India
17 Jul 08
No i m not agree we all behave like that we r busy we waste our lot of time in stupid things we watch TV for more that 3 hrs when we can spend time with friends for at lest 1 hr which make us more fresh and ya i always try to be a good friend for that first of all i try to understnd my friend and his/her nature so that i talk with them as per their like and dislike.
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