What Men Find Irresistible in Women - What Every Women should Know!

It happened to me once. Happened to my friends many times.

Poohgal, I guess there is no such thing as being the perfect girl/guy, but we can try =) In the long run, it makes ourselves happy too! Heehee.. Have you met many guys who are unfaithful to you before?

Guys will always be guys, and they are not as sensitive to feelings.. PLus in this time and age, their way of communication will be thru online, or calls or even messaging.. To them, these are communications, and thus their relationshops never last as long.. hehe But not to me, as i belong to the more emotional type, thus communication is very important to me ^_^ Definitely not that type of communications i mentioned above.. haha

oh, i dunno about that way in order for the picture to show, normally, the pic i upload will show, even i upload it after typing in my post ^_^ Yeah, many different ple varies, and for my taste, i will prefer sporty gals, while some guys only like pretty gals on the surface ^_^ hehe As for communication wise, it's very important in a relationship, if not, it's gonna be a one sided affair, and the gal in a relationship, will be just like a robot.. lol =D Old discussions are not a problem for me as long as they are interesting ^_^

Tell that to some guys who will never get it. They think that communication is not important as their words are golden . And they wonder why is it that their relationships fails faster than they can say hi.

hahaha!and they say WE women are demanding.look who's talking. and another thing, guys gossip worse than women. They complain about women all the time but they can't seem to stay away. Ha!Men are so weak!hahaha

Lol I laught at point #6. This somehow or rather shows the egos of males. They want a female who has her own opinion and can stand for themselves, but yet, they do not want the girl to surpass them. But, when a girl gives in to the guy and not surpass them, then they are called to be too clingy. Sigh~ It's tough to be a woman nowadays. Well, whatever is mentioned above has been seen in the behaviours of guys too. I guess it all depends on the self-esteem of a person and of course the maturity of the them, regardless of the genders. Thanks for your response, take care and happy mylotting!!

Lol It's always been like this in the world. We do not agree with others that are different from us - be it gender, looks, race or religion. All of us just want to disagree with others based on their differences. Haha, so women complain about men, and vice versa. I do agree that guys gossip worse than women. Women gossip about others arising from jealousy, envy or admiration. However, men gossip about others purely due to ego boosting. They think by bragging about their latest conquest in bed or gossiping about which girl has the hottest body or all that stuff will enhance thier placing and importance in other's eyes. It's true in the past, women are the weaker gender as we can't seem to do anything and we need to depend on men just for survival. However, in today's generation, women are independent and can survive just as well without men. What men can do, women can do too. However, what women can do, men can't do them. Lol, and yes that makes women the stronger gender!

You are very much welcome angelia. Happy New Year in advance.

Same goes to you too my friend!! Take care and have a happy new year for the year 2009!!

Hi again Angelia, I was discussing your topic with my friend Irina yesterday. Irina, by the way, is an extremely beautiful little angel and one of my best female friends in Germany. Irina was surprised that I did not mention the physical beauty of the woman/girl as making her irresistible. She argued that this was the first thing which the man sees. She is right, but I did not list beauty as I see many beautiful women, who are not irresistible...

Thanks umart13 for your response. I really appreciate it =) Of course I would accept your opinions as what they are. Everyone has their own opinions and you are definately entitled to yours. Lol. That being said, let me just comment on the points that you had raised: 1. Moody and depressive woman - I know that there are some men who goes for these type of ladies. No comments on this. 2. WOman who listens. -- Everyone agrees on this point, though as a woman myself, I find it difficult to actively listen to people at times. So, if you find this type of woman, treasure her as she is a rare find. 3. Make herself more irresistible -- Hmm, good point. This had not been discussed before. But I believe that a woman who shows less flesh rather than more is the type who are perceived as the type of girl whom we would bring to see mama? 4. Mysterious -- Ahh.. the bait that keeps the guy guessing and the girl intriguating. 5. Confidence is definately attractive, not only in women but also in men. It's funny how self-confidence would automatically make something to be more sexy and powerful to the other parties. 6. Who says vulnerability can't come with self-confidence? Everyone has their down side once in a while whereby your confidence just gets shaken to the core and you don't even know what or who to believe anymore. It sure cause guys to feel the need to protect this sort of woman =)

One more point angelika, if I may. This is the question of the amount of flesh, curves etc. which a woman displays. I would argue that after a certain point there is zero marginal improvement in the irresistibility of the woman and that if she overdoes it then the consequences are: that the man loses respect; the the woman loses her intriguing or mysterious qualities; and finally the man does not want to think that other men have laid their eyes on the girl he finds irresistible...

Lol, all comments are welcome, be it from the males or the females. Equality exists in this world Haha =) Ya I do agree most women are just compulsive talkers, we just can't seem to stop talking. That's where the cliche steps in - Men are from Mars and Females are from Venus. Lol. Let's just put it this way, talking is good if it's done intelligently, however, when one starts talking just for the sake of talking, it gets not only on the guy's nerves, it gets on others nerves too.

Thank you for the best response! I appreciate.