What Men Find Irresistible in Women - What Every Women should Know!

Singapore
July 18, 2008 4:37am CST
Hi All, I had attached a picture (explanations on the below main points) on the above topic. 1. A happy friendly woman. 2. A compassionate woman. 3. A woman who listens. 4. A woman who dresses like a true lady. Sounds like it's very true. What do you think? Men, please speak up!;D Discuss.
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@poohgal (6848)
• Singapore
19 Jul 08
True indeed. If I was a man, I would love such a girl too. However, how many Guys out there are good enough for such a girl?? My experience tells me hardly. If guys want the perfect girl, they should try to be perfect too (especially in terms of being faithful).
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• Singapore
21 Jul 08
Poohgal, I guess there is no such thing as being the perfect girl/guy, but we can try =) In the long run, it makes ourselves happy too! Heehee.. Have you met many guys who are unfaithful to you before?
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@poohgal (6848)
• Singapore
21 Jul 08
It happened to me once. Happened to my friends many times.
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
7 Sep 08
I dun see any picture, unless u are the woman in the picture, regarding to your post?? lol 1) Everybody will like to see their frenz happy, and so, it's even more true to see a happy women.. haha 2) A compassionate woman, yes, as it shows a more feminine side of them no matter how tough they are on the ouside, and she has also got a vulnerable side ^_^ 3) A woman whom listens is not good enough, they must be able to understand and also raise their doubts if they are not sure of anything, or dun approve of things ^_^ It's more like sharing ^_^ hehe 4) It's a truest of all, because no guys will wanna see a woman dresses up like a guy, holding their hands or waist and kisisng in public with another 'guy'.. lol =D But a sporty gal will be good too.. haha
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
8 Sep 08
oh, i dunno about that way in order for the picture to show, normally, the pic i upload will show, even i upload it after typing in my post ^_^ Yeah, many different ple varies, and for my taste, i will prefer sporty gals, while some guys only like pretty gals on the surface ^_^ hehe As for communication wise, it's very important in a relationship, if not, it's gonna be a one sided affair, and the gal in a relationship, will be just like a robot.. lol =D Old discussions are not a problem for me as long as they are interesting ^_^
• Singapore
12 Nov 08
Tell that to some guys who will never get it. They think that communication is not important as their words are golden . And they wonder why is it that their relationships fails faster than they can say hi.
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
12 Nov 08
Guys will always be guys, and they are not as sensitive to feelings.. PLus in this time and age, their way of communication will be thru online, or calls or even messaging.. To them, these are communications, and thus their relationshops never last as long.. hehe But not to me, as i belong to the more emotional type, thus communication is very important to me ^_^ Definitely not that type of communications i mentioned above.. haha
@umart13 (841)
• Ireland
24 Jul 08
Hi angelia, I will speak up :-) These are just my opinions, so please accept them for that: 1. The woman does not have to be happy to be irresistible. I am also attracted to women who are moody and suffer from depression. You can put a whole load of Hollywood stars on that list, e.g. Marilyn Munroe, and Vivien Leigh. All were irresistible to men. 2. A woman who listens is a must. 3. The lady makes herself more irresistible, if she shows less flesh in her clothes, not more. 4. She needs to be mysterious. 5. I find confidence in a woman attractive, but I find vulnerability also attractive. There is a fine balance if not a contradiction there. 6. She must be intelligent. Anyway these are my current views and they are subject to change :-) Umart
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• Singapore
25 Jul 08
Thanks umart13 for your response. I really appreciate it =) Of course I would accept your opinions as what they are. Everyone has their own opinions and you are definately entitled to yours. Lol. That being said, let me just comment on the points that you had raised: 1. Moody and depressive woman - I know that there are some men who goes for these type of ladies. No comments on this. 2. WOman who listens. -- Everyone agrees on this point, though as a woman myself, I find it difficult to actively listen to people at times. So, if you find this type of woman, treasure her as she is a rare find. 3. Make herself more irresistible -- Hmm, good point. This had not been discussed before. But I believe that a woman who shows less flesh rather than more is the type who are perceived as the type of girl whom we would bring to see mama? 4. Mysterious -- Ahh.. the bait that keeps the guy guessing and the girl intriguating. 5. Confidence is definately attractive, not only in women but also in men. It's funny how self-confidence would automatically make something to be more sexy and powerful to the other parties. 6. Who says vulnerability can't come with self-confidence? Everyone has their down side once in a while whereby your confidence just gets shaken to the core and you don't even know what or who to believe anymore. It sure cause guys to feel the need to protect this sort of woman =)
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@umart13 (841)
• Ireland
26 Jul 08
Hi again Angelia, I was discussing your topic with my friend Irina yesterday. Irina, by the way, is an extremely beautiful little angel and one of my best female friends in Germany. Irina was surprised that I did not mention the physical beauty of the woman/girl as making her irresistible. She argued that this was the first thing which the man sees. She is right, but I did not list beauty as I see many beautiful women, who are not irresistible...
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@umart13 (841)
• Ireland
26 Jul 08
One more point angelika, if I may. This is the question of the amount of flesh, curves etc. which a woman displays. I would argue that after a certain point there is zero marginal improvement in the irresistibility of the woman and that if she overdoes it then the consequences are: that the man loses respect; the the woman loses her intriguing or mysterious qualities; and finally the man does not want to think that other men have laid their eyes on the girl he finds irresistible...
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@valeria1 (2724)
• United States
18 Jul 08
I am not a man but I will speak up. LOL. I have lots of male friends and what they complain the most about women is that they nag. Like bla bla bla all the time, compulsive talkers. They give lists for them to do when they want just to relax. They care about their bodies a lot also and love inteligent women.
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• Singapore
18 Jul 08
Lol, all comments are welcome, be it from the males or the females. Equality exists in this world Haha =) Ya I do agree most women are just compulsive talkers, we just can't seem to stop talking. That's where the cliche steps in - Men are from Mars and Females are from Venus. Lol. Let's just put it this way, talking is good if it's done intelligently, however, when one starts talking just for the sake of talking, it gets not only on the guy's nerves, it gets on others nerves too.
@valeria1 (2724)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Thank you for the best response! I appreciate.
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
I've got 5brothers and a whole lot of male cousins and friends. Here's what they always complain about women: 1. nagging 2. too clingy 3. one who fishes for compliments all the time 4. too insecure 5. obsessive 6. they like a girl who can hit a guy but not a girl who hits HARDER than a guy. 7. sneaky & suspicious
• Singapore
8 Jan 09
Lol I laught at point #6. This somehow or rather shows the egos of males. They want a female who has her own opinion and can stand for themselves, but yet, they do not want the girl to surpass them. But, when a girl gives in to the guy and not surpass them, then they are called to be too clingy. Sigh~ It's tough to be a woman nowadays. Well, whatever is mentioned above has been seen in the behaviours of guys too. I guess it all depends on the self-esteem of a person and of course the maturity of the them, regardless of the genders. Thanks for your response, take care and happy mylotting!!
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• Philippines
9 Jan 09
hahaha!and they say WE women are demanding.look who's talking. and another thing, guys gossip worse than women. They complain about women all the time but they can't seem to stay away. Ha!Men are so weak!hahaha
• Singapore
12 Jan 09
Lol It's always been like this in the world. We do not agree with others that are different from us - be it gender, looks, race or religion. All of us just want to disagree with others based on their differences. Haha, so women complain about men, and vice versa. I do agree that guys gossip worse than women. Women gossip about others arising from jealousy, envy or admiration. However, men gossip about others purely due to ego boosting. They think by bragging about their latest conquest in bed or gossiping about which girl has the hottest body or all that stuff will enhance thier placing and importance in other's eyes. It's true in the past, women are the weaker gender as we can't seem to do anything and we need to depend on men just for survival. However, in today's generation, women are independent and can survive just as well without men. What men can do, women can do too. However, what women can do, men can't do them. Lol, and yes that makes women the stronger gender!
• Philippines
29 Dec 08
Thanks for sharing friend. Guys who are mature would always go for this kind of women but for the young ones they would always go for the looks and the body. Too sad that they are not seeing the real person but what they only see skin deep. Happy Mylotting!!!
• Philippines
30 Dec 08
You are very much welcome angelia. Happy New Year in advance.
• Singapore
30 Dec 08
Same goes to you too my friend!! Take care and have a happy new year for the year 2009!!
@1hopefulman (28403)
• Canada
29 Sep 08
Most men find a pretty face and a good body irresistible. Personally that's ok but there has to be a lot more to the woman. Some intelligence, good conversationalist, sense of humor, spirituality are some things that would attract me.