Happy even if you cried inside

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Maybe that's what one of the thing love is all about. Happy for someone you love even if it really hurts you inside. A girlfriend of mine regrets when he let her boy bestfriend slipped away. They were best of friends and right from the very start, he is being honest and vocal to his feelings about her, but the feeling isn't mutual, still he respected it. Still loving her and waiting for the time she will learned to love him as a man and not a friend. They separate ways after graduating from college. He have to go afar to mend his heart,but he didn't stop loving her. They still communicate with each other through chatting and texting. He never lose hope but after two years she never ever give a sign that they could be possibly a chance of going further beyond friendship. He knows, he have to move on, which he did, maybe not that fast but slowly. Until she met this woman who never hesitate showing her love to him. A friend of mine came crying to me upon finding out that her bestfriend got married already. It really hurt her that much knowing that she loves him already and just waiting for the proper time to tell him about it. But it's too late. And she really regretted it. She's happy for him but she's really crying inside. Now she equally feel the pain how it feels to be be like him when he was in her shoes. I just adviCe her to move on. That's one of the irony of life sometimes. But it happens already and she can't do anything about it. The least she can do is to be happy about him. But it bothers me when she said, to be fair she would like to tell him that she is loving him now. Just to make her feel better. Is it okay? What's the use?