it is really hard if you don't have monther

@julyteen (13259)
Davao, Philippines
July 20, 2008 8:56pm CST
i really felt hard now! i am longing the presence of my mom. she left us last July 05, i really miss her. i always think of her care to us her siblings. i miss her hugs and words "I miss you son". when i remember this words, i can't resist myself to cry. i make all things for my mom but she is gone. it's really hard to face the day without her.
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@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
21 Jul 08
I know it has to be very tough for you. I still have my mom but I lost my dad when I was 12 years old. My husband lost his mother last year also. He was very close to her and misses her alot too. He thinks about and speaks of her quite often. I didn't know her that well but he said she was a very good woman. I am sure your mom was too by the way you speak of her. Hold her close to your heart and she will always be there.
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 10
The only thing I did until now is to hold her in my heart. Everytime I saw nice places, good things, etc. I always remember my mom. She is very closed to me in all her siblings. When I was still young at the age of 18, I was already independent from them I live faraway because of my work and all she ask I give her as long as I can. When I go home ones a year she always give me a kiss and hug when I enter our house. I missed this things now.
@plumwish07 (4059)
• Indonesia
21 Jul 08
hm, i don't think so for my self since since i born i never taking care by my mother. i just raising up by my grandmother so i used to be alone without my mother. however, sometimes i also missing the figure of a mother. when my friends telling about their moms, i just felt jealousy to them
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 10
Yeah mate it's really hard if you don't have a mother. Better for you your grandmother taking good care of you in the absent of your mother. I am not close to my grandmother because she has biased in treating with grandchildren. The son of her youngest daughter is closed to her and he give everything what he ask.
@deebomb (15322)
• United States
21 Jul 08
It really is hard when we lose our mom. Just remember all that she did to show you how much she loved you and you will get through this difficult time. I won't tell you that it gets easier with time. That hurt will never go away but as time goes by you will cry less and less. I think we always miss our moms.
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Jul 08
maybe it's because i spent almost 32 years with her and this long years make our bonding more closer that is why i miss her everyday. anyway, thanks for your kind.
@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
im sorry to hear about your mom. i can really feel the sadness and longing in you. be strong. although feeling sad is natural after a lost of loved one, just think that she's watching you from above. always! and for sure your mom won't be happy seeing you sad. i cannot say anything more. have a blessed day..
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Jul 08
you are right. thanks for the good advice my friend.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
14 Aug 10
She is my best friend, to share and decide. Thats my best mom and she is unbeatable!I love her so much
@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 10
I am closed to my mom so everything I ask she give it to me. Maybe because I the eldest and I am also good to her. After finished my college and have a decent work, all she ask I give to her if have. She was the best mom I knew. I missed her so much.