WHY?..

Denmark
November 4, 2006 3:26am CST
why are men interested in perfect looking girls,as the playboy ones but when it comes to have a girlfriend they don't want that kind of girl?i really don't understand this much and i noticed it often..
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15 responses
@vicele (329)
• Kenya
4 Nov 06
I think when it comes to girlfriends they want some one who will feel their body ,mind and soul ,but when it comes to this playboy ones they just want them for showing off of kind of to satisfy their egos.
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• Denmark
5 Nov 06
and why couldn't the girlfriend also be goodlooking and proud of going out with?
@epizzahut (2080)
• China
6 Nov 06
because they are men.
• Denmark
6 Nov 06
haha,well that is another subject...why should men be like that?what makes them so different than us?why are their eyes always running after all the girls ...why don't we do that also
• Denmark
8 Nov 06
you have a lucky wife then and i wish all men think like you...now may i add another remarque?i think(correct me if i am wrong)that you also like to read books or watch documentaries..you have a rich general knowledge,you are good with words,and you seem to be sure about what you are saying,so you must have a base on that..maybe from what you read or seen yourself;)..
@divir_vij (1593)
• India
5 Nov 06
hmmm.... Interesting point.. but i dont agree much with you on this... its not true that in reality they choose nonplayboy kind of girls .. its just the matter of demand and supply... Everyone doesn't get what he wants...
• Denmark
6 Nov 06
well,i wanted to see if you will touch that point,when it is said that men don't want playboy girls because they know they can't have them,so they seek for girls that would actually look at them but this is an ugly point of view...i wouldn't like to believe that my partner wishes he would have one of those girls but he has to be satisfied with me lol...i would like to know that he wants me for who i am and that he preffers me instead of one of those..if he likes those girls so much then try to find one for himself ,because otherwise we will both be frustrated
• Denmark
8 Nov 06
ok,..you did it!!!!you made me blush even though i warned you ..hihihi
@verrohit (310)
• India
8 Nov 06
everyone looks for perfection...........so wll definately look for beau girls.........but a girl is beaut from her heart..........not from body...........as it is a secondary factor...........
• Denmark
14 Nov 06
i agree,and i am glad there are people who still believe that
@tvnaresh (1583)
• India
7 Nov 06
They dont want others to watch their girl friends .....
• Denmark
7 Nov 06
some men like others to watch their girlfriend,and they are proud that it's his girlfriend and others can just watch but not touch
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@manzician (4739)
• India
6 Nov 06
Because they want a more commited girl as a gf....Aneewayz... Thanks for your question.... Its really nice to be here at mylot... Are you guys here for money or just for funn....
• Denmark
6 Nov 06
both i guess hehe...it is really fun and entertaining...meeting so many people and so many different opinions..people sharing their life,love stories..it is great..and the fact that we are also payed for this even if it isn't an amount to get rich from,it keeps us going on,and trying to post quality responses,longer ones,in a word..it makes us take this seriously and respond with our heart...at least in my case that's how it works..i don't even respond to all the discussions just to get money,i responde to those where i think i have something to say..
@fvalente (855)
• Portugal
5 Nov 06
i can't explain x| maybe cause we don't like to go to the disco and see all the boys looking to she...
• Denmark
6 Nov 06
some guys have nothing against that..they like to know that the girl that all men wish they had it is theirs and only theirs
@robertdj (116)
• United States
5 Nov 06
see, i'm a man and I don't get this either. I've dated a wide variety of girls and seen far more naked girls in real life then most (because of a past job) and i just find the skinny blonds so uninteresting to look at. I just don't get it. No character. Personally, I love my chubby girl. Chubby girls in general, just lots more fun, lots more variety and more to love :)
• Denmark
6 Nov 06
well,i am not chubby and i am blonde...and also skinny i could say because since i have a pc at home i lose my nights on the internet searching for money online and stuff like that and i lost 4 kilos..and damn,i wish i oculd get them back..but i dont know why u say men are attracted to skinny blondes because as far as i have seen the magazines models are not at all skinny..they have nice round curves
@chukwudi (1100)
• Nigeria
5 Nov 06
because they think that those perfect girls are everybodys ,while less perfect ones are good for keeps ,thinking that people will not come there
• Denmark
6 Nov 06
your opinion is similar to divi's so i would have the same answer...and by the way i know many guys like to have a girl that draws attention because they can be proud that she is his and only his...i know my boyfriend likes or used to like that guys look at me and tell him he is lucky ..and no,i am not the playboy kind of,i am quite the opposite..but somehow i always draw attention,even with my normal looks..maybe because i am blonde haha
• United States
5 Nov 06
why do you ask? Well as far as I go,I am shy and would feel like I am out of my class.Is there really a class? Anyway I would love to have a girlfriend and how she looks to everyone else does not matter It's all about the heart... Hows yours? I like to give my woman everything I can but it always makes them go away.Why to that...
• Denmark
6 Nov 06
i couldn't agree more with you..it is true..you just have to be confident of yourself and most of all be yourself...and yes women are attracted to strong independent guys and they like to find out what is under that face,they like to discover such a man and make him theirs..i liked your story,and the way you think but i am not gonna give you my number haha
@vipul20044 (5800)
• India
14 Nov 06
First thing Noone is perfect Second thing Those who appear to be the most appealing and attractive are usually the most dumb! So that isnt always the criteria Dont tell me gals dont fall for hunks!
@asteroid8 (916)
• Italy
14 Nov 06
We are always interested in perfect looking girls, but I think that we want them also as girlfriends. Maybe we can be afraid to lose them if they are beautiful, but it's fantastic to have a perfect looking girl as a girlfriend, I think.
@justnitya (1393)
• India
8 Nov 06
you like to loook at a star in the sky,but dont want to take it home
• Portugal
7 Nov 06
Well some men want some hkind of girls to ride and some to married. I think some have some problems and jeaulous about others looking to his wife or girlfriend. I´ve had some beautiful girlfriends, some looked like playgirls, and now I´ve married with a beautiful woman and never mind that others look to her, that´s good, it´s not a problem to me. Beuatiful or less beautiful womens are just humans like us. And we all made mistakes.
@Riah50 (672)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I wish I had the answer to this question. Most guys cant get a girl like that. And besides most of those girls arent perfect anyway..they are probably airbrushed in their pictures. If I had someone to do my hair and makeup everyday and someone could airbrush me..I just might be as hot as those girls lol. But I really dont know why guys are like that. I have spent too much time trying to figure it out..and Im just tired now lol.