Do you believe that the heart got weary too??

@Anne19 (300)
Philippines
July 21, 2008 10:17am CST
I have realized that love is not about being with a person. It is about being able to free him and still love him. It is about caring without expecting anything. It is about holding on to that small hope that at the end of the day, he would come back. It is being unconditional to forgive mistakes. It is about letting go, physically but never emotionally. But love isn't just about that.... when you love someone you need to be loyal and conscious of your actions. You must not take for granted that someone loves you so much, that she will be waiting for you all her life. Because sometimes the heart got weary too, not from loving too much but from the pain it receives. Sometimes, it is the heart that gives up.
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@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
Hi! Welcome to myLot. Yeah I do think the heart gets weary too but I just hope that for most people that wont happen because we can love and love again but once the heart and the mind decides together that its over and they both had enough then its no going back. Its a very difficult thing to get back again. But I guess it really depends on each situation and the parties involved but its still up to the heart to decide for it to be final even with the warnings and reminders of the heart.
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
Yes, thanks! I believe that sometimes no matter how much we love a person, if we are already hurting so much then our hearts would eventually told us to stop. Because sometimes the pain becomes too deep that we are left with no choice but to let go, regardless of how much we don't to.
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
HI Anne..Im with you..everything in the universe needs rest even robots and machine, how much more is the very soft heart..and only time will tell when it can be relieve even if the mind is involved..
@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
I think love or how the heart loves is such a complicated thing that I think even scientists cannot pinpoint its decisions even with scientific calculations..
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
yup i believe in it too but two couples must show each other unconditional love for the relationship to last that long... well one day you'll meet the right man for you.. i strongly believe in that!!!
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
Maybe. But I'm still not ready for anything as of now. Still fresh but I need to rest..
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
someday you will!!! cheers!
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
Hi, Anne19! I guess there must be a point when the heart gets weary from all the hurt it has received. But if you really truly love someone, with an unconditional love, then the heart will never give up. Time and again your loved one may hurt you, but you cannot stop loving him. There might be a time when your mind will want to give up, to stop loving him so that you will no longer get hurt. But your heart cannot hear what your mind is saying. And there could even be a time when you need to let him go, even if you still love him. This is why there is faith, hope and love, but love is the greatest of all.
• China
24 Jul 08
I think most of people think the love must be pure and equal.You couldn't hope your lover love you much more than yours just because you thoughe you are perfect. LZ,I couldn't agree you more,If someone always wait her(his) lover's love,her(his) heart will get weary. But by the way, If you are sure you can't be in love with someone waiting for your offer,please be quickly to let her(him)know.don't worry that you hurt her(him).The longer it is last,the more he(she)feel hurt.