How will you let go of someone you love so much??

@Anne19 (300)
Philippines
July 22, 2008 11:34am CST
Maybe we are not meant to be together....Maybe we are destined for some other things. It took me so long to grasp this notion, to finally accept that he can not give me the love I deserve. I have forgiven him million of times, and I've never ask for a single remuneration. I just accept him with open arms, regardless of the pain he has caused me. But like everything else, I'm capable of getting weary. And little by little, slowly I'll let him go. How I wish, I could be like him, an indifferent, selfish people. But maybe our difference has helped me to realize that it will be unjust to love him. I will consider him a dream...far and unreal. Something that doesn't exist. Someone that would never had the power to hurt me again. The only consolation I've got is my angel. And the opportunity he has provided for me to grow stronger and wiser. Have you love someone so much but you need to let him go? How was it?
3 responses
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
i smell broken hearted huh.. well sorry for that.. if u really want to let him go take it easy, just follow the simple steps.. first delete all his messages from your cellphone, second, give your pictures to your sister or brother & allow them to keep it for you, third, if you can, delete his number from your phone, delete him from your friendster/facebook/myspace/tagged account. i know what you felt coz i felt the same way too, but im over it.. i tried to do this & it helped.. you know what it's almost 2 1/2 years when i get over him. i'm with my bf before but im still thinking of my ex.. isnt it unfair for my bf?.. but now im happy for him & no more feelings for him anymore coz im really happy with my life now.. ^_^
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
.. broken hearted? hmmm.. quite, but not like before. I guess I'm already recuperating, although it's not like I can say, I'm already over him. But hopefully. It is indeed a process and I'm taking all my time to heal..We've been together for like 6 years and that's a long time, not to mention we have a daughter. So it's quite a tedious process, i believe. Anyway,thanks to your advice, that will be very helpful indeed. :)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Once there was a time I loved someone so much. It was an irrational, stupid, blind love; everybody said we were wrong for each other, including the guy's dad and my mother. Eventually with all the outside pressure, we broke up. It felt like someone tearing a part of me away, it hurt so much. The pain was beyond tears, I was almost in shock at first. I tried not to think of him, packed up everything he ever gave so that they would not remind me of him. It didn't work. After a year he came back, and we were married 3 years later.
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Oh that was so touching. Seems like a movie. I'm so happy for you that you are able to keep the man you love. You are really destined for each other. As they say the love you gave away is the love you keep.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
as the song of says "love takes time to heal when you are hurting so much". so it won't be that easy to forget someone unless you try doing a lot of things to divert your attention by keeping yourself busy with something else or any other methods you could think of. if you are really destined for each other then one day he'll come back in to your arms again but as of now i don't think that will work out. on the other hand, he may not be the man for you and the man for you is just right infront of you. it is just that you can't see him clearly yet. don't hurry things up. wait and have patience. the more you look for that someone the more it will take you that long to find him..
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
I must agree with that. Sometimes you have to part ways to grow up and I know we still need that, so basically it is an opportunity to improve and be better. I believe in destiny, if we are meant to be, it will happen. But if we are not, no matter how I try to force things out , it will never happen. I just know I need to move on and let go bit by bit. :)