What is the one thing that attracts you to someone else?

Canada
July 22, 2008 5:52pm CST
Have you ever stopped to think what it is that is most common in those that you are attracted to? I had never stopped to think about it till a few years ago when it came to me that a girl with red hair was guaranteed to get my interest. I found that it did not matter what age they were and that they were not perfect body-wise as one would think; all they needed to be was red-haired. I don't know if it was their fiery nature or what, but rarely has a red-head not gained my interest. Do you have a similar attraction characteristic in others?
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• India
24 Jul 08
if it is striking a relationship, then it has to be the genuineness of a person. it is the only thing which is permanent with a person, the character. and if the question is pertaining to making love, then i would say it is boobs and butts. i simply can not resist shapely mountains and wide derriers. they simply turn me on.
• Canada
24 Jul 08
Those two assets definitely do help to the enjoyment in bed. LOL
@heart4u (409)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
his eyes and the way he smiles
• Canada
23 Jul 08
That is what gets me to like all of the other woman I meet. A smile goes a long way to making someone attractive.
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Yeah I also noticed that before. And base on my observation, I am easily attracted to men who has this certain way of carrying themselves, good hygiene of course, a man who can engage his self to a meaningful conversation with me and to anyone else makes him even hotter , and a man with great sense of humor. I mean, I am not that physical when it comes to considering a guy, what's important is the impact they create and the way they makes sense when they talk- I love to listen really. Shared interests and intellectual connection is what usually turns me on into an attraction.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
You should be able to have most men of your choice. Listening is a quality that is lacking in most people. Good for you in being a good listener.
@santau (223)
• United States
22 Jul 08
When I first met my husband he had wide, toned shoulders and neck. I realized then that broad shouldered look is what I like. We have been married for almost two years now and I still get turned on when I notice his shoulder or lay my head on them.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
I would hope that as you got to know him, he also had a good personality and knew how to treat a lady. I have seen relationships where it was only physical attraction.
• United States
22 Jul 08
I'm not usually attracted to the people I fall for at first with their appearance. I tend to not like them when they are too attractive haha, then I automatically think that they may have big cocky egos . Once I get to speak to someone and find out how their personality works I am then attracted, or not attracted. Though it's not a requirement, I really like guys who are six feet or taller .
• Canada
23 Jul 08
Nothing like a huge ego to turn off most people. Beauty is more than good looks.
@loujac3 (1188)
• United States
22 Jul 08
To me it is a great smile. Happy eyes and a bubbly personality are also at the top of the list.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
I agree that this is important. Think of the opposite and imagine how little you want to think of being with such a person.
22 Jul 08
I'm easy as long as they have an attractive face. Thin or fat, whatever, but the face is what catches my attention.
• Canada
23 Jul 08
I can agree with that though I even narrow it down to the eyes. If they are smiling, then it makes up for other deficiencies.