I have no friends!!!!!

United States
July 25, 2008 8:52am CST
ok this is a weird discussion for me because I would never post a discussion about getting friends, but i figured I'd have a lot of friends by now, maybe it's because i'm to selective? i don't know but i would like to have friends with a lot of the same interests as me. hope to hear from you soon.
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8 responses
• Canada
25 Jul 08
You know, I have the same issue. I'm a nice lady. I am loyal and dependable, and kind and generous. So why am I not surrounded by people who clamour for my attention? Because I expect the same treatment back, and that just doesn't happen as often as it should
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@ZephyrSun (7385)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Well if you base your friend requests by what interests they have checked you're probably missing out on a lot. And friends are really great to have here, I respond to almost all of my friends discussions and they respond to mine. Also, I'm sure there are way more interests here than I have checked because I haven't gone through all of them and just this morning I found one that I didn't know about. Good Luck finding friends.
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@ZephyrSun (7385)
• United States
4 Aug 08
Thanks for the best response.
@dpk262006 (56718)
• Delhi, India
26 Jul 08
My brief answer to your post is, even if I find that anyone has even a single similar interest, I add him/her as my friend. Those who respond to my discussions with full devotion and dedication and write quality response to my posts, I immediately send them a request, without going for a second thought. I on my part, accept most of the request for adding me as others friend. If I find, after few months, that I am not taking part in particular friend's discussion and vice versa, I do not hesitate to delete his/her name from list of my friends.
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@dextornap (333)
• India
25 Jul 08
Dont choose peoples. Just accept them when ever they come to make friendship with you. don't you feel bore if you have all dresses with same color and same design. Friends are like that only. So make friendship with different peoples so that you can also gain some knowledge and new interest. And who knows which friend will help you in your difficult time. so try to make many friends
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@carolbee (16233)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I'm glad to have you on my friend's list. Thank you for joining my list. I can suggest you search through discussions that interest you and respond to those discussions. In doing so, request that member be on your friend's list. I struggled for awhile to get friends but eventually it all fell in place. I ran across a couple of really good friends who were helpful. If I had a question I could email them via their personal email address.
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• United States
25 Jul 08
You may just be like the rest of us shy and quite it's hard meeting new people but just wait you will have lots of friends before long.....
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@Cannonball (3635)
• France
3 Sep 08
Yeah i would do like dat on myLot or any other kind of social networks,I mean I would accept all the requests and then if it has to turn into real friendship it would just be,naturally. I'm not so picky anymore about it
• United States
3 Aug 08
But what makes friendship so special is the fact that yes friends have a lot of the same interest but also there are different interest also. That is what makes friendship so special is the fact that the two look at each other as separate but the same. Friendship is a very special relationship.