should i accept him?
July 26, 2008 5:34am CST
he said he loved me since our highschool.but i just treat him as a general friend before he say this.after he did it, the relationships between he and me is in mess.i don't want to hurt him,but i not sure wether i love him.is there anybody can tell me wether should i accept him?
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26 Jul 08
Hey,there.I think the choice should be indeed made by yourself.You said you don't know whether you love him and that is the problem.If you really don't hate him and don't want to hurt him then I think you can give him a chance,but if you only treat him as your brother I think you should tell him the truth and tell him don't waste time any more.I think he can manage to recover otherwise he isn't worth being loved.Ok,above are all my suggestions and after all the choice should be made by yourself,just follow your heart and the ending will be good,I think.
26 Jul 08
It's up to you. I did that back in high school too, a fool of me in loved with his best friend. Anyways, our relationship wasn't affected, I became a suitor, and she didn't accept me. We're still best friends, and I have a girlfriend now. Don't let that confession ruin you. That feeling will diminish anyways if you don't accept him. But if you opt to, give it a try. By that you can have a closer relationship and get to know each other. Oops, I was wrong about there. Let him court you, don't accept him just yet, so that you'll know each other more, in a closer spectrum. Then, if you feel like he's the guy, the accept him. If not, he should accept that fact. Don't let it mess your friendship though. That's all I can say.