I have no Idea How Some People Think Sometimes...
July 26, 2008 6:38pm CST
Yesterday, I met up with one of my close friends. (Let's call him A). He confided in me a lot of things about another one of my friend (Let's call her B), which shocked me to the core. Things happened like this.. I introduced B to A - an Ang Mo guy about two months ago. Recently B had been asking A out every single day without my knowledge. (Of course, there is no big problem here). The situation is that B had an active interest in A and wanted to get him into bed with her (her ultimate goal). However, she is someone who is about to get married soon in September! A confided in me that just a week ago while I was away in Malaysia, B called A out and during that period of outing, they actually make out (French-kissed). On top of that, when I came back from Malaysia on Monday, they came over to my house on the pretense of wanting to be massaged. What happened was that B stripped down in my room, and A massaged her back. What I didn't know was that B was trying to seduce A into having S. with her! A revealed to me that during the periods that I was out of my room, B tried to get his attention by squeezing his breast, as such to stop her, he warned her that if she tried that again, he is going to do the same back to her. B upon hearing that, became more aggressive in her advances.. Needless to say, they were engaging in some soft petting before I came back to my bedroom. I was appalled by what I was hearing as I did not knew my friend B to be like that. B had always been telling me that she is faithful to her fiancee, but from what I had been hearing, it does not seemed to be that way. What more, B's fascination with A is that he is an AngMo (caucasian), and A being a flirtatious guy is up for the challenge. What's up with B's attitude?
7 Sep 08
THat's very wrong of B, to do that, especially she's gonna get marrid soon in sept.. Even if she's just out to have fun, but she should not have done that too, and she should know her limits.. BUt doesn't A knows that B will be getting married soon?? IF he knows that and he still goes ahead with the temptation of the flesh, then i guess u should not befriend him anymore.. As he's the type to take advantage of situation when it permits.. MAybe u can try to have a good talk with B and ask her what exactly happens..
8 Sep 08
The entire situation is just wrong, and I was somewhat caught in between as both A and B are my close friends, and B's fiancee is somehow my friend too. The situation had got more complicated now, with the marriage being called off and A breaking off with B. I don't really know what to say about it. To me, I really can't be bothered with the things that are going around me. Afterall, if I can't even handle my own relationships, how am I to advise others of what to do with their relationships? The friendship had long been broken with A, and it was not because of this incident (to me, this incident does not bothered me at all), and so.. I guess everything in life had happened for a reason. Let's just hope that everything works out well in the end, and I wish for all three of them happiness and bliss, instead of heartache. Well, let's all pray that all well that ends well! Thanks for your response and well, have a nice day!!
10 Dec 08
Lust & Temptations vs Real love. That's the failings of human beings. We just can't seem to resist temptations, can't we? I will not say others as I am also one of them. As long as we are humans, we will have this failing. Oh well, thanks for your comments! Take care and happy mylotting!