I will stop responding to those who are not responding to me?

Japan
July 27, 2008 5:35am CST
I was going through the discussion I have started and the responses I received. I noticed that many of the friends to whose discussion I regularly respond, never bothered to respond to my discussion. This prompts me to cut the relation with them and stop responding to them also. Relation must be in give and take principle. To my surprise, many friends from India are the ones who are not responding. They start discussion and never bother to respond. Why? Is it due to the fact that they get more money to the responses than answering in myLot ? Even if it is so, that won't help them in the long run. People will recognize them soon like I did an analysis. I have some good friends herein myLot who always bother to respond. What is your advise to me? Is it OK to go ahead with my decision.
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5 responses
eihdra
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
Hope I'm not one of them... I could only say that if I am in your shoes, I would not do it..So what if they don't respond to me..They might have reasons behind for not responding..I would like to think that maybe they do not know what to say or cannot relate to my topics...That's reasonable enough for me... But then,it will be your decision..try to think about it many times, when you're not mad..Sometimes when we're angry, we tend to be irrational... Hope you will keep on posting....
aryajayaprakash
@aryajayaprakash (1643)
• Japan
29 Jul 08
I will keep posting on good friends like you, who had bothered every now and then to mine also. There are some who never did, but I always responded to them. That hurts.
ajesh_pullad
@ajesh_pullad (2251)
• India
29 Jul 08
Hi friend. That is needed. I going to do this as strict. I will no more respond to those who are responding to us. I think we should delete from our friends list. But one thing is that some of discussion we have nothing to give as response. Thanks
aryajayaprakash
@aryajayaprakash (1643)
• Japan
29 Jul 08
We can understand for ten to fifteen discussions some friends not responding. not for continuously avoiding. Then for what they accepted the request for friendship?
narayan sahoo
@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
27 Jul 08
Hello friend, I do understand your feeling,concern and viewpoints.The number of responses one receive herein mylot forum is mostly based on the quality of the discussions posted. I do find the similar type of problems,you are experiencing and trying to explore ways how to make my discussions more exciting to draw more readers and responders.I will always try my level best to respond to your postings. Have a nice day!!
aryajayaprakash
@aryajayaprakash (1643)
• Japan
27 Jul 08
Thank a lot Narayanji.
britzsofly
@britzsofly (395)
• United States
31 Jul 08
Well sometimes that happen with me too and i certainly know how you feel. Just don't worry about it , everything will be okay continue to write here on mylot and soon someone will respond
reckon21
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
Hello, just an advice from a friend. Don't cut them, just ignore them. That's the way it works here. But don't get dis-appointed and hurt. Continue with my lot. I think they are busy. They will return to you soon.
aryajayaprakash
@aryajayaprakash (1643)
• Japan
27 Jul 08
Thanks, but when I found that it was they to whom I have always responded, makes me hurt. I take your advise. Thanks