irritated

i love you - i love you card
@riyasam (16582)
India
July 28, 2008 3:55am CST
have you ever said i love you to your mate just to please him when you do not feel so at that moment?????????when and why have you done so.....................
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7 responses
• United States
28 Jul 08
yes becuse when i dont say it back they get all mad and then hell be like ohh so you dont love me no more and all that bull crap.
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
28 Jul 08
yea you are right.
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@dsharat (456)
• India
28 Jul 08
No..I never faced such kind of situation till now..If I face such a situation. then I will say that I love him...Because I hate loosing friends...
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
28 Jul 08
thanks for response
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@riocab08 (41)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
yep.. i did it 1 time to stop the argument.. cause if i don't do it.. i know that things will get much worse..=]
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
28 Jul 08
hmmmmmmmmmm.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 08
It's natural. Being partners you need to complement one another. But there are also times that you do it just to end the argument. it doesn't really mean that you don't love the person anymore, it's the mood that sets everything.
@riyasam (16582)
• India
28 Jul 08
yup u got it right.
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• Malaysia
28 Jul 08
I've had that done to me before. We were fighting alot. It doesn't feel very good cause you can tell. Not just from the tone but the situation you're in. Do you do that often?
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
28 Jul 08
yea sometimes i do.
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• India
1 Jun 09
Well not really Riya…as it is my hubby is that typical silent type who don’t believe in wasting energy on useless words. I cant actually recall any time when he has said he loves me, except during lovemaking! So anyway, most of the time, I am going like ‘I love you so much, you don’t love me at all…’ and so and so and he just sits there doing his own work and gives me an indulgent glance which seems to say ‘so again you start off with your crap’
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
1 Jun 09
we ladies always counter the husbands,thats what my hubby says!he keeps on telling I LOVE YOU and i roll my eyes heavenwards and say ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS.
• Canada
1 Jun 09
I would never ever say something like that just to please someone. For me to say I love you to someone, I have to MEAN IT, and those are the only circumstances in which I've ever said it, thank goodness.
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
1 Jun 09
once i went to my friends place for lunch and she asked me the opinion about a dish,as i didnt want to hurt her feelings,she said it was very nice and to my horror she gave me another spoonful of serving!!