LOVE!!!!....and breaking up...

@raclie (1732)
Singapore
July 28, 2008 9:22pm CST
i was thinking of something today.... it is just that.... breaking up is hard, i know.... but the think is why? some people i know have a phobia that they will breakup and be really shattered. but the thing is... at least that you have loved once, more than what you can, to have your heart shattered into pieces. so, the thing is, maybe dont cry because it has ended, smile because it happened?
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@ahgong (10066)
• Singapore
29 Jul 08
I never believe in breaking up. The way I see kids now a days, they go into a relationship for the sake of it. Cos everyone is doing it, why not me? Relationships and love goes hand in hand. And A LOT OF WORK is required to maintain a relationship between two people. Something that is built on trust, should not be taken lightly. I mean, all of us know breakups are tough. Why even plan for it? If you really like someone, make sure you know him or her better first before taking the next step to go into a steady relationship. That way, the relationship is bound to last better than most. Reduces the chances of a breakup cos you know what you are getting into. Who you are going steady with. What you are expecting. That in my opinion is so much better than just going into a relationship and hope for the best. No?
• Brazil
29 Jul 08
i believe this is the righ way to think when something bad happens to you. it is like philosophy chinese. Yin-Yang, when something bad happen to you do not give up or become sad because like a wheel you will be below sometimes and high up other times =p so, be happy when something really bad happen because something really good is coming ^^ thanks,Scorpionok.
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• Sweden
29 Jul 08
For me is you can do both..cause crying is the way of taking off all the hurt you feelings when you are broken hurted,and be thankful that it was happen because GOD have another plan for you..Also in this world you cannot find quickly a person who will love you for the rest of your life..This kind of experince make you strong and understand what is love and also when you hurt you learn it just like that..:=)
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@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
That's a good view about breaking up. Breaking up and moving on is a process. I think that living on the thought that you have love rather than the thought of regretting the relationships is actually helpful in moving on with your life. However the best for me is still that you breaking up could be avoided if you handle the realtionship properly
• Canada
29 Jul 08
I always siad that i I am ever going to break up with someone, there will be a REASON or i, and because of that REASON I won't be too shattered. If a guy cheats on me, for example, why sould *I* be shattered that that relationship eded? If two people are really in love, it's going to last. It's like my huband says of his ex-wives. There is a reason why we married, but there's a reason why we divorced too. I'm the lucky one. I married the man of my dreams, the first time around. :)
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• Philippines
29 Jul 08
Good day..when you fall in love, you tend to hope that he/she is the partner you'd spend your life with. You pour your love, time and effort to make the relationship work. If it fails or you've broken up it would shatter your dreams and your heart.
@austere (2816)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
guess it all depends on how you see love and how you react to it. there is always no guarantee when you love someone. the person can love you the same way, treat with with respect and will trust you but that same person can look for somebody else, make you cry and hurt you like nobody else has as well. so when you are in a relationship, handle it with care and give all your love. and if you lose the person you love, or if he'll find somebody else, dont cry, he was not meant for you after all.
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
love and breaking up go together...its a reality. we've been hurt..we have experienced pain ang anger but thats normal...we're just humans. but to think about it...you've been hurt because you have loved...you've been loved... breaking up means you have to start once again until you find your true love. so, do not worry if you've been left because you have just proven that you have given them love...and that matters most!
@myliezl0903 (2731)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
yes, positive attitude girl! yes thats true ., it is really hard to love someone and then in the end you will just get hurt but remember there is always a reason for everything., God will not give things that will make you a bad person.,or you may experienced a lot of things in this world but you have to deal with it no matter what.,that's what life is all about.,Ü have a nice day ahead! see you around! myliezl0903 manila, philippines
@nupats (3564)
• India
29 Jul 08
hi dear one really needs to be emotionally very strong to face a break up smiling it is very tough...all the past memories just bring more pain..but i think time is the best healer and life goes on and gradually the break up does not hurt as much..you are indeed very optimistic dear..have a nice day
@subha12 (18453)
• India
29 Jul 08
i think we all hate to be discarded. in breakup that feeling is there. so many just fear it. people also fear of losing the person they love so much.so they are so bitter about it.
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
29 Jul 08
hi raclie long time no see! well sometimes breaking up means you are not meant to each other and you need to accett the fact beucase its part of our life and sometimes we learn our own mistakes.i know it hurts but deal with it!
@webeishere (36353)
• United States
29 Jul 08
When a couple breaks up from a love relonship they each take a piece of the others heart with them is why it hurts etc. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~