What do you people think about Bondage?

India
July 29, 2008 4:11pm CST
Hey people. Would like to know what you think about Bondage? Would you implement it in your married life? if yes, then how do you think the relation between you and your partner would be during the session and after it.
7 responses
@Dsraven (151)
• United States
30 Jul 08
i love bondage...ropes, chains, blindfolds, etc....We are not married but have been living together for three years and from day one BDSM has been in our life...it is the way we live...the only difference in our relationship after a "session" is that i am back in the place i belong...back to 100% submissive and the trying to "top from the bottom" has left the house lol
• India
30 Jul 08
Thats very cool. It doesnt really matter if you are married to a person or not, until you have that kind of a comfort level, wherein you can share everything(even your body and more) with the person you love. Submitting yourself and giving full control of your body to your partner needs a lot of trust, and that is what is required in any kinda relationship.
@cianoy (513)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Hey it looks like there are more pro-bondage posters on this thread. The other one I checked is predominantly NO. I think it's very exciting and worth trying. I'll leave it at that.
@amvinay (122)
• India
30 Jul 08
i never new about all these things,thanks for giving me more info and im getting lot of knowledge about these things and hope to learn more from your discussions and also its really good all u r response gives me and also i learn new things from you ...
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I've been into the whole BDSM scene for many many yrs now and probably will be for the rest of my life LOL yes I love it that much LOL...I've done some mild bondage with my husband both before and after we got married and it didnt change our relationship in a bad way at all...in fact it gave it more flare really...it was a fun secret of sorts between us that we enjoyed.
@property (453)
• United States
29 Jul 08
My relationship with my mate has a very strong foundation based on dominance and submission. He does bind me, not everytime... but when it suits him. From my standpoint (I understand this will not work in all relationships or for everybody) I feel almost comforted by being bound. In our relationship the roles are never reversed. He always has the upperhand. I have no desire to ever tie him up, not that I could. He stands a foot taller than I and is disciplined in hand to hand combat as well as the martial arts. He is my master...i am his property.
• United States
29 Jul 08
I personally am not into bondage but if some people are into it that's cool and their decision. Of course I'm not against maybe a blindfold or some soft scarves to tie your hands to the bedposts but as soon as you bring in whips and chains and black leather I run the other way! Everyone has their own interests and what turns them on and what turns them off. I think if a couple both likes this type of thing I think it could do wonders in the bedroom and really make their relationship stronger. I don't think the relation between you and your partner should be any different after the session as long as both of you are ok with things.
• United States
29 Jul 08
I think bondage is fun.. I got off easier that way is i'm all tied up.. I love it. I love to tie my husband up and do naughty things to him...