Which one is easier? To hate or to love a person?

@yenwie84 (1344)
Malaysia
July 29, 2008 6:22pm CST
I find it very hard to hate a person unless that person really does something which really make me pissed off. Sometimes,we may feel like we dislike a person but I don't think that is hate,maybe just don't like,but we still can accept that person to be our friend. What I mean hate here is we totally cannot accept a person in our life,we want that person to get lost. I think to love a person is easier for us to make it. Love does not mean only in men and women's relationship but also between family,and friends. After all,of course it's bad feeling to hate a person. Do you agree with me? Please share,thanks.
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26 responses
• India
30 Jul 08
Love and hate, both are Intrinsic feelings,we cannot measure it extrernally.
@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I don't think I've ever hated anyone. I can't, not only because that was the way I was raised, but because the Bible says that we're supposed to love our neighbor and our enemies. God wants us to love all people. I think it's okay to hate things but not people. You can hate foods. You can hate spiders. But really, hating people is a no-no. (Hate his/her actions, not the person.)
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@debjit (339)
• India
30 Jul 08
I don't share same idea towards this point with you friend. I feel it is quite difficult to love a person than hate him. Love, kindness, forgiveness are some of precious feelings which are becoming more and more invisible from today's people. Now-a-days, this rough world teaches us how to hate people. We can see the result in news everyday. There are blood,massacre, killing everywhere. Love is becoming invisible, We need to learn how to love people. It is quite easier to love your spouse, but loving someone you don't know is totally different and most difficult thing on earth.We need to learn this.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Overall, I think it is easier to love a person but when they do something wrong or that you disagree with (especially strongly) it might be easier to hate them rather than love them. Balancing love and annoyance is difficult whereas hatred is just one motion.
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
it is easier to hate, i dont know why.
30 Jul 08
It is easier to hate your right. Reason being you are protecting your self by pushing what ever it is your hating away from you possible something that is herting you. But it is harder to HATE if you LOVED what you are hating right now for pushing some one or something away from you that you loved is a difficult and confused situation in your body and mind.
@skyTears (20)
• Indonesia
30 Jul 08
absolutely agree ! let's learn to love to the water flow... to the wind blow... to the morning that starts the day... to all living things... dont only love to ourself... why must we hate to others ? coz understanding to others can make us b more wise... why must we hurt to others ? coz to hurt is more pathetic than being hurt..
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
30 Jul 08
According to me to love a person is very easy. I may not like few people but that does'nt mean I Hate them. I Dont hate any one. Yes I agree with you!
@paid2write (5201)
30 Jul 08
Hatred is against my nature and it would take a lot to make me hate someone. I can hate what people do and I hate some things that go on in the world but hatred is a negative thought process and I prefer having positive thoughts. Love is easy for me. I can love anybody and everybody. I feel warmth towards all people and I can fall in love easily. Having a long loving relationship is not always so easy. When I'm in a relationship I am totally loyal and loving and will not mind about any faults I see in the person. After it's over I think about their faults, but that doesn't make me hate them. I don't stop loving people. I just love them in a different way when the romance is over, or the affair has ended.
• India
30 Jul 08
That is all life up down, we can't ignore our relationship with our family members or life partner, it happend some times we keep distance with partners, but finally we need that relation for long time.
@vimaal (3361)
• India
30 Jul 08
hi friend, hate is easier than love a person.
• United States
30 Jul 08
I try real hard to get along with everybody but sometimes that just doesnt work at all no matter how much effort I put into it.
• Indonesia
30 Jul 08
sometimes hate people more easy than to love someone, but to hate someone to love is the hardest same hard as love someone hates.
@chandu245 (647)
• India
30 Jul 08
According to me hate is very easy than love to someone. Really difficult to propose someone, because they should believe me then it's something wanna called as love. But hate can be made from any body to any one very easily but one thing in your mind " it's very very difficult to forget those loved once after hating".
• Romania
30 Jul 08
Well...in my opinion is very easy to love or hate.It's the same thing even if there are 2 different states.You can "learn" to love a person very easy for the things that she/he can do, for her/his appearance...I don't know...you can't even explain why do you love somebody.When you hate somebody is for a good and known reason.
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
Good day... You can do either as long as you have enough reason to love or hate a person. Though it is faster to hate a person than to love them, I mean it will just take a couple of blunder and it's possible you may end up hating a person while it will really take time and effort for people to make them lovable.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 08
Hate is a very exhausting emotion - it makes you very bitter and tired. Usually I would try to avoid people I dislike or detest; I try to totally put them out of my life, and not think about them at all.
@bizmom24 (163)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I try to get along with everyone, but it's hard, i have learned to just grin and bare it, I don't like to hate someone, and it's better to just love someone, I'm told you can do both. love them but yet hate them. but I don't like to have to hate someone. I try to keep in mind why I liked them to begin with. and what goes around will come around. but it won't involve me. too much hate as it is. Bizmom24
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
I think it's easier to love a person. Hate is something that rarely happens. If it does it will ruin your good moods and your good relationship with others.
• Pakistan
30 Jul 08
Well first i would like to talk about HATE.... i think for any human being its very difficult to hate any one because of no reason. I mean to hate someone their must must must be reason behind this hate. Whereas in love their might be no reason... like you love your mother any reason???? you love your friend any reason? may be may be their are some reason but these reason will not as stronger as in case of Hate........ one more thing when hate some one it might "intentionally" but your love will be "Unintentional"!!!!!!!!!!!
@ohioboy2 (15)
30 Jul 08
Hating someone is much easier. Loving someone takes time. I could meet someone and within 15 minutes I could consider hating them. It is bad to hate someone but their is really nothing you can do about it since you can't get along with everyone you meet.