Would you love a Fat Guy...? I want Girlz shd answer it HONESTLY...

@abhax123 (1697)
India
July 30, 2008 4:35am CST
I wanted to ask this question to all the girlz... would you Love a Fat guy even if you are a Beautiful girl... i just wanna know...
11 responses
@Tasche (138)
• Ethiopia
30 Jul 08
I wouldn`t, else the guy has a very special character. You should think about this: The girls have to be thin, be attractive, use makeup, fashion dressed, do sports to keep the body in a good shape. They even take the risks of plastic surgery. What for ? Men make them doing it. And then men come along fat, wearing old t-shirts, don`t shave and stinky ? I am going over the top right now but that is my opinion. If you want a beautiful girl,you should look nice too !
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@abhax123 (1697)
• India
30 Jul 08
Fair enough but all Fat men arent like that you said here... but have you thought that a fat guy might have no other option, he might have tried everything possible but he cant shed that extra weight... and a beautiful girl come's alone and say mean thing about him and he never says anything to her for what she said to him... But still that fat guy is the A$$hole coz he liked a beautiful girl...
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@Tasche (138)
• Ethiopia
30 Jul 08
Being an a$$hole is a character thing. Why should somebody think you are just by the way you look ? Sorry but that doesn`t make sense to me.
@abhax123 (1697)
• India
30 Jul 08
But it made alot of sense when people called him names just coz a Fat guy proposed to a beautiful girl...
@liuqian (476)
• China
30 Jul 08
I don't care whether he is fat or thin only if he is very nice,thoughtful and treat me very well.He cares me is what i concerned.Actually fat guy gives girls a feeling of safety.But not too fat,girls may think the guy can't control himself very well.
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@abhax123 (1697)
• India
30 Jul 08
Really appericiate all u girlz but seriously hope u all are saying what u really meant... thats what i mean a attractive person will cheat u more often then a average looking guy... but still DUN FORGET THAT FAT GUY TOO HAVE FEELINGS AND THEY TOO GET HURT
@liuqian (476)
• China
30 Jul 08
I know that.Lager guys are more thoughtful.If someone treats me very well,i will also treat him very well.Apppearence doesn't mean a lot during the dating.Heart is important.
@abhax123 (1697)
• India
30 Jul 08
True so True... i wish all girlz can think like You...
@KellyMate (362)
30 Jul 08
It wouldnt bother me at all what the guy looked like. As long as he was happy with his weight and treated me nicely, then thats all that matters. I dont judge my relationships on looks :) If hes a really nice genuine guy, then why not?
@abhax123 (1697)
• India
30 Jul 08
Nothing against you Kelly but i have seen this all girls says the same thing if he's a nice Guy... as long as they are friend its good and if that guy wanna start a relation suddenly he becomes the big fat loser...
30 Jul 08
None taken :) But I can assure you thats not the case with me. Ive dated larger guys in the past. And its been great. I mean who can complain about cuddles on the sofa for hours? But seriously, ive had a hell of a past, so I dont go by looks, when i was younger i used to think looks were everything, but then being beaten and abused came out of those relationships. So now I go on personality only, which I should have done in the first place :S
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@abhax123 (1697)
• India
30 Jul 08
WEll i hope all is well now...
• United States
1 Feb 09
Im in love with a fat guy!! I am beatiful and have a great body!! im not fat nor skinny weve been together for 2 yearshes great!.. we started out as friends and then he asked me out, I said yes bc he is soo cute and nice! He treats me really well!! IM his princess!! He has one of the most beautiful faces Ive seen in men! and hes is overweight and I dont care!! I just care for whats inside!! we work out together bc he wants to do something for himself! and im really attracted to that! Im 21 hes 22 some people say im too beautiful for him bc I look so good and he doesnt but i dont care bc they dont him as i do!
• Canada
17 May 11
ill be honest i have been destroyed by women rejecting me and meaning cruel..i had more knight crying my self to sleep then most should have. ur comment on this page on how a man with alot of etra padding can find soemone special who thinks like u. this kinda made me tear cause i hope i can find the same. congrats to the both of u, ur both ur both very lucky.
27 May 11
I'm in love with a guy that other people would call fat. I don't see him that way though. It bothers me that he thinks he is too. I am more attracted to him than I have ever been to another man. He is handsome, incredibly smart, funny. I could go on and on. He treats me like I am a princess and we love everything about eachother. I love him for who he is and to me he is sexy and the most attractive man in the world.
• United States
30 Jul 08
I personally don't care what the guy looks like it's how he acts and how he treats me. That is what matters more too me.
@abhax123 (1697)
• India
30 Jul 08
Ok i would believe you... but have ever dated one...?
• United States
3 Aug 08
yes I have dated a bigger guy.
30 Jul 08
yes. i like someone with a bit of meat on them. i like something cuddly to hold on to at night.
• Canada
17 May 11
nice to know girls like u are out there. hope i find a girl who doesnt mind my tummy.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
On my own opinion, I never dated or never been courted any Fat guy, and honestly speaking, I would answer, I may possibly or may not. It's not actually an issue if he is fat, not even an issue if he is not a good looking but the attitudes he possesses counts more. Being that neat would make him look good anyway, and his character would be the best point to consider in him. I think girls would respond to this positively, that it is possible, but I'd rather say you'll never be sure unless you'll experience it. So if you girls out there would have experience this, that a fat guy would court you, well you must give them a chance to prove what they got, what they have, and know who they are. And never reject them in a way that they are being disappointed. You might put yourself into their situation for you to know how it feels...
@abhax123 (1697)
• India
30 Jul 08
Kudos for this response... but i think its the social pressure that why a Beautiful girl dun like to have a relation with a fat guy... i personally have nothing against beautiful girlz but sometimes i think they are a bit mean.... No Offense...
@Koko2181 (13)
27 May 11
Oh and I'm probably what most guys consider a "perfect girl"
• United States
1 Feb 09
Im very beautiful.. and I have a great body im not fat nor skinny.. and Im in love with a guy thats fat!!! can u believe it!!! we started off as friends and then he asked me out.. and because he was soo nice, and cute I said yes!! my bf is the best!! he has one of the most beautiful faces ive seen in a man!! and I dont care hes overweight!! some people tell me im too beautiful for him just bc hes fat.. but they dont know him! and weve been together for 2 years now and we work out together bc he knows he is bad condition and wants to do something for himself and that really attracts me!
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
Of course, love is blind. Sometimes a fat guy has a lot of humour than on guys with an average body. They have much sense and I know they can respect girls, somehow.
@dianagnes (1088)
• Singapore
31 Jul 08
To love is kinda deeper,lets say its to Like.Actually i dont care how physically a person is.As long,im attracted at their personality,their behavior,attitude..thats what matters. Whether fat or thin,is fine to get love..Im not fussy about this.Some guys prefers fat girls and so forth of girls liking fats guys.