dis-appointed or not?

India
July 30, 2008 1:26pm CST
what is you work hard a lot whweter for xams ,for business for making gf/bf.... but u fail to suceed....... do u feel disappointed and loose hope.......????or remain determined to achive ur goal........
6 responses
@kissie34 (2296)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
Well, as for me sometimes I felt disappointed and somehow losing hope especially if I really exert hard work and some sacrifices.. Actually, I had experienced this when I was in college... When I really exert my efforts doing my requirements for my final grades but then when I saw my final grade I was very disappointed because the grade that I was expecting had not reach... From that experienced, I had never do some hard working in any of my requirements.. I will just be contented with the grades that my teacher had given to me.. I am not expecting higher because I when everytime I disappoint myself.. But honestly speaking, I learned so many things everytime I failed... The more it encouraged me to do something but not to high... It is just in a sense that I can easily reach it because I believe that dreaming to high can makes you fool down especially if I am not being careful of doing some things...
• India
31 Jul 08
i mean in my question ..that wt hapns to u wen u work hard /...try a lot to achieve an aim ,or any thng... but u fail....to succeed in getng....do u keep on hoping positively..or u feel so disappoineted dat it looses ur morale.....or wht?
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
No matter what obstacles in life I encountered I never gave up hope or faith that I can overcome them. I firmly believe that if something hurts you and it does not kill you then it was something to make you stronger so move on and learn and never forget. I can get disappointed too at times specially when its for something I have worked hard on, but never give up has always been my only option. After all have you seen any hero in the TV or movies that gave up on getting what they want? I haven't and I don't plan on giving up until I get what I want my way.
@hofame (11)
31 Jul 08
This is life, the advice given is from a young wise person whom will succeed in whatever he does.
• Nigeria
30 Jul 08
Hello, Life is all about ups and down, when ever you try to embark on a project just have it at the back of your mind that is either you fail or win, with these expectation when ever you fail you feel to bad about it but instead you see as a lesson and moven on. Any time i try doing something and i eventually fail in the course of doin it, i will analyse the cause of my failure and i will work on it so it won't repeat itself and i keep moving on.
@hofame (11)
31 Jul 08
You will succeed in life following this advice.
@ivieigen (98)
• Philippines
2 Aug 08
honestly, before when i fail to what i really strive hard, i get really disappointed. i dwell on the past and have hard time to cope with it. now, i am trying things that would help me in times like this. for instance, i go to the malls, watch my favorite television series or if not just reflect on myself, see things and ask my self what really went wrong. with that i can understand myself better and learn from what i failed to.
@amlan43 (34)
• Bangladesh
31 Jul 08
understanding is depend on the mode, is not it? But i really fail to get the message you post.........please clear to all, like me here.
30 Jul 08
me too.. i don't understand what are you trying to say