Would you just throw your pet out in the street if you couldn't have it anymore?

United States
August 1, 2008 2:45pm CST
It amazes me how people can just take their pets and leave them outside for anything to happen to them. This question stems from the recent incident with the 44 pound cat. It is sad the owner lost her home, but I would think that she would put the cat in a shelter first. I had a dog named Scrappy that I couldn't keep and I didn't want her to go to a shelter and I tried my best to give her away so she ended up in a shelter and at least I knew where she was. Let me know okay and God Bless!
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@wayz12 (2059)
• United States
1 Aug 08
No! I don't think I can. Pets, even though they are just animals, are important, too. They can feel, too. Furthermore, if they have been with you for a while, they are almost part of your family. Abandoning a pet is like abandoning a member of your family, a member whose well-being is highly dependent on you. How can you violate that responsibility? So, no, no matter how tough things can be, I will either keep them or find a decent home for them, but never to abandon them.
• United States
5 Aug 08
That would only be the right thing to do! Thanks for responding and God Bless!
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
1 Aug 08
I understand her dilemma, but she could have handled it better with the cat. She should have first see if there was anyone who could have taken him, then if that didn't work take him to a no kill shelter. In the cat's condition being so fat, he probably can not defend himself, and putting him on the street is just like killing him. Sorry to sound so harsh, but it is true, anything could have happened, not to mention cars. I am glad the cat is okay, but she took the cat back, and is still in the same predicament she was in before. Maybe with the airing of the story someone will come forward and give her housing. That's how these things usually folds.
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• United States
5 Aug 08
And you know sudalunts, I never looked at it that way but you're right. The cat couldn't possibly defend itself. I feel for the cat and the owner as well but at least the cat is back home now. Thanks for responding and God Bless!
@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
1 Aug 08
Because of the huge animal overpopulation problem, it is very difficult to get your animal into a no-kill shelter. Almost all no-kill shelters have huge waiting lists. Others won't take in any animals directly from owners at all... they only rescue animals from high kill shelters. You definitely should never just abandon your animal on the street, but most of the time the only other option is taking your animal to a shelter that does euthanize.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
1 Aug 08
From what I understand the Humane Society and other public housing for animals are filled to the brim. Most cats they have to put down. Maybe this person thought the cat would have a better chance at living if she put it out on the street. Perhaps someone would see it and give it a home, because chances are if it was to an animal shelter it would be euthanized. Most people only want kittens, not full grown cats and a 44 pound cat is quite an undertaking to say the least. I'm not saying it was right, I'm just saying it may be the case.
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• United States
5 Aug 08
I understand what you are saying kbourgerie because it is true. That is one of the reasons why I was so saddened that no one wanted my Scrappy, because I didn't want her to go to a shelter but I had no choice. Thanks for responding and God Bless!
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Chunk would have definitely been put to sleep if taken to the shelter. However, he has over 100 people wanting to adopt him now. So maybe fate stepped in & saved his fat azz. Did you hear they moved him to a different location & had to use a dummy car because of all the media tryimg to keep up with him. They had 2 cars there & put a regular cat in the first car so the media would follow that car & then they put Chunk in the second car & to his new home in peace. (ROFLMAO) CRAZY!!!
@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
1 Aug 08
I work with homeless animals in shelters, and the psychological damage of being abandoned by their owners is very evident. It is such a sad sight to see! Also, most of the shelters have absolutely horrible conditions! These places are absolutely dreadful! And also shelters do euthanize millions of animals every year. There are far more homeless animals in shelters than there are homes. So most animals that do end up in shelters are put down. I know the law where I live is that if you drop a pet off at the shelter, they shelter can legally kill that animal that very day. There are no-kill shelters and rescue groups, however most of them are full. And hardly any of them will just take in an animal. They pretty much only pull animals from high-kill shelters. The shelters that do euthanize are usually very full too. So when you dump an animal there, it means that the shelter has to put down another animal to make room for yours. So I can definitely see why someone who couldn't keep their pet would NOT want to take their pet to a shelter! I would NEVER advise someone to just abandon their animal on the street to fend for itself, but I can understand why people would do that over taking their pet to a shelter. People are naive and think that domestic animals can take care of themselves out in the wild. Or people think that someone will find their pet and take care of it. Most animals that are abandoned on the street like this die, or are picked up by animal control and taken to shelters.
• United States
5 Aug 08
Wow trickiwoo, you know first hand how it is in the shelters. I knew some of the things you mentioned but I didn't know that they were able to kill the animals that very day! How awful and sad. Thanks for responding and God Bless!
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
1 Aug 08
I could never do that and I'm not defending this pet owner but maybe the entire ordeal was just too much for her, she couldn't go to the shelter and she hoped that someone would take the cat in.
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@xanraven (145)
• United States
1 Aug 08
The few dogs that I've had in my life I never got rid of them by just putting them out. I sold one and the others went to family members who wanted them. I do wish everyone would put them where they need to be when they dont' want them. We have 20 or dogs that run up and down our street just from people putting them out. It's ridiculous. We need to get some of Bob Barker's shirts and wear them LOL!!!
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• United States
5 Aug 08
That's funny! But you're right xanraven. There are a lot of cats where I live and I'm like, Oh my goodness!! Thanks for responding and God Bless!
@riyasam (16556)
• India
2 Aug 08
i can not be so heartless.i would try my best to try find another home for the pet.
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• United States
2 Aug 08
Oh my gosh! NO! Never! I could never just leave my pet outside to fend for itself, no matter the reasoning behind not being able to keep it! I would most defeniatly try to find it a home first, like you did. I would look for as long as possible! And if, for whatever reason, I am unable to find her a home-I guess I would have to bring her to a shelter. But I would make sure and tell them that if they cant' adopt her out, and they make the decision to euthanize her then they better contact me first. Of course I would NEVER bring my pet to a shelter that reularly euthanizes, I would bring her to a "no-kill" shelter where that happens less often. But i would be very strict and say DO NOT put her to sleep before contacting me.
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1 Aug 08
I can't understand it either except that some people are just prepared to be cruel and thoughtless. We have a responsibility towards all animals and if for some reason someone has a pet and cannot look after it any more they should try and find another good home for it or if they cannot, then take it to the RSPCA or local animal rescue centre.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Aug 08
hi linda we had to move to an apartment thatdid not take pets sso we found a family with a little girl who absolutely adored my dog swap and while it nearly broke my heart I knewshe was in a good home with a yard and a little girl who loved her so at least she was okay. I sure did miss her.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
2 Aug 08
she is just fine,so live with a clear conscience.
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• United States
5 Aug 08
There is comfort in knowing where your pet is and knowing that your dog is safe and secure. It's better than being outside fending for itself right? Thank you for responding and God Bless!
@ruby222 (4847)
1 Aug 08
No ,no way would I throw any pet into the street!there has been a lot of chat about this on the television recently,and there have been a lot of pets just abandoned,well the RSPCA is saying please dont abandon them just take them to the animal sanctuaries and drop them there ,at least then you know they are sfae and someone else doesnt have to go and rescue them
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
2 Aug 08
i sure wouldnt. but im wondering if she contacted them and not knowing how the cat was different, they said they had to many cats already and no one would take it. dont say that cant happen. my daughter ended up having to keep 6 cats because absolutely no place or anyone she knew would take any of them. also, i wonder why this got put in the Daily digest and mine didnt? mine was about the 44 pound cat.
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• United States
2 Aug 08
no i wouldnt, and actually one time we moved and the place we moved to didnt allow pets so we had to find someone that could take our cat in. so we ended up giving her to our next door neighbor plus she was already pregnant by their cat anyways.what a perfect place for her to be right? thats what i thought but then one day as i was walking home from school i saw her sitting down in the bayou. i guess they just kept her kittens and threw her out.
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• United States
5 Aug 08
Oh that's terrible!
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
1 Aug 08
NO I couldn't just turn my pet out. I don't understand anybody that can. I've had 2 neighbors do just that & I took one of them in (a Pit Bull). I would have taken the other one but he was an agressive male & I was afraid of him. I did put some food out for him. Fortunately I found the owner of the Pit Bull & convinced them to find him a home. Unfortunately the other one was picked up by animal control (called in by another neighbor). I had a cat that slipped out once. I looked for him for over 6 months. I finally told myself that a kind soul had taken him in as I had not found his body in my search. I just hope I was correct. My male lab was lonesome so I just took in a female lab that was a stray so he would be happier. My 21 year old cat just passed away & I adopted 2 kittens so I wouldn't be lonesome. I had a possum showing up at my house every night so I caught him & carried him out to the country & turned him loose because I couldn't kill him. I LOVE ANIMALS!!!
• United States
5 Aug 08
After having pets of my own Ladymarissa, I've come to find that they are just like us. They get the same diseases we get, they get old like us, the only thing is that they can't talk. I was always more of a dog person and not a cat person. However, I was given a cat from my sister and the name was cuddles. I fell for cuddles. But one day she slipped out of our window and never came back. I was so heart broken. My dog Scrappy is now at an adoption home. I had to put her in a shelter which really broke my heart because my brother gave her to me when she was just 2 months. Now I have another dog (much quieter)named Orea, and two kittens named Louie and Johnnie They are nice to have around and hopefully I won't have to lose them. Thanks for responding and God Bless!
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• United States
5 Aug 08
You know what LadyMarissa, my kitten Louie lets me know when he wants something to eat or if he is in my room and wants to get out, he lets me know by meowing me also. God is good because he gave each and every creature, both human and animal the ability to communicate in different ways.
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Boppie... NO children....5 stepkids from exhubbies & God knows how many grands from them. Lost touch with them over the years. I babysit for free so I am godmother to several rugrats. I love kids & ALL animals. Thank you for the compliment.[ b]Linda...[/b] They will talk to you if you listen. My 21 y/o cat used to argue with me. She had a meow for YES, NO & MILK & she NEVER hesitated to use them to get what she wanted. One of my new babies has already started talkin to me. When he wants in my lap he meows like PLEASE. He used to come up & stretch on my leg & I'd look at him & say "you need to say please." then I'd pick him up. A few days later he was sayin please & jumpin in my lap. Pets are like childrem, they do what is expected of them. I talk to my pets like they are children & they respond accordingly. I hope your luck gets better with your new loved ones.
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• United States
1 Aug 08
I couldn't imagine ever giving up my dog or cat at all. I once gave up a summer job that I really loved because they would not allow my cat in the housing units the third year I was to go back. I didn't have anyone I really trusted to take care of him for 8 weeks (my parents were out of the country). So I just didn't go. I got a crappy job at the mall instead. I know things happen in life that we can't always control; but if it was so dire that I could no longer care for them, would beg everyone I knew to take my pets before I would just turn them out in the woods. They are so acclimated to being indoor pets, they would very likely be completely tramuatized by being abandoned.
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@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
2 Aug 08
If I was forced to give up my pet I'd find a no kill shelter for it. But, even that choice is a hard one. Right now I have too many pets. My family and doctor tells me I need to find homes for some, but I just can't bring myself to give them to a shelter. I may have to post a sign and try to find other homes for them but I dread making that choice. By the way - a 44 pound cat? Surely it wasn't just a normal house cat that was that big I hope?
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• United States
2 Aug 08
No I could nver do that. I love my animals. Even if I had one that made me so mad I couldnt just throw it out. I would find someone to take it. I could not give it to an agency either. I wouldnt feel right. I think that people that just throw animals out are heartless people.
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2 Aug 08
Guys If you can't take care your pet dogs anymore please send it here in the philippines, I would gladly accept it, and I'm serious.
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• China
2 Aug 08
I hate people throw away their pets if they don't want to keep them.If you didn't have enough confidence to yourself when you decided to keep a pet,pls don't try.Once you get a pet,you should keep it till it passing awy.If you have to give up in the mid-way,you must find another master or a shelter for it at least.
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• China
2 Aug 08
Of course not.Seriously,as they have been with you for a while,they are your family members too.How can you abandon a member of your family?
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