How soon have you ever said i love you?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
August 1, 2008 9:53pm CST
i know that in relationships it takes different people different amounts of time to say i love you and to really mean it because i realize that those feelings just don't happen you have to really care about the person and invest time, so i was just wondering...for me it takes me awhile usually to get those kinds of feelings and maybe that is just because i am a guy, i don't really know...but i was just wondering about all of you, what is the shortest amount of time that you have spent with a person before you said that you loved them, thanks for taking the time to read my discussion and i hope that you all have a great night!
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11 responses
@MrNiceGuy (4141)
• United States
2 Aug 08
I've only said it once before and it was around 9 months after meeting and 2 months after dating my first serious girlfriend. It was the first time I had ever felt that way and I knew pretty shortly after I began to feel it.
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@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
3 Aug 08
as soon as i feel it. i can say it even if our relationship is only 3 days. as long as i feel love him i will say it.
@omer_ahmed_tabarik (1057)
• Pakistan
2 Aug 08
It takes me a lot of time just to say that I love you.I agree that these things demands plenty of time and also requires expression off and on.The shortest time I too was about two years and still after that I was not confident enough whether to say it or not.But you know ove is blind and it draws its path no matter how much you hide it or how long you deny it.
@sassygirl2 (19)
• United States
3 Aug 08
is it right for a guy to say that i love you to a differnt girl that he never meet and only talked to her on the computer. is it ok for i guy to say that he want to make love with that girl even if he does not know if that person is sick and have a killing decesse or not.
@chechuva (1275)
• Philippines
2 Aug 08
me too it takes a long time for me to say that i really love a person.
presently im in a relationship (but not really aware of our status). we don't really say the 3 magic words to each other. and i actually asked my bf not to say it to me. i don't really want to hear him say those words coz i don't want to be used to hearing it from him. i just want him to show it to me.
@Icyfairy (284)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
2 Aug 08
i've only said i love you to one person and thats my bf. my past boyfriends used to say 'i love you to' me but i just couldnt say it back cause i really didnt love them. i liked them alot but i couldn't say love. i'm not sure but it took me about 2 or 3 months to realised that i love my bf. thats also how long it took me to tell him my name. lol. some people may think that it was a short period of time but i think that it was just right cause i have never felt that way about another person. in september its gonna be 3 years that we have been together and i love him more everyday so i think that my timing was just right.
@latriciajones (846)
• United States
2 Aug 08
i have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and i first told him i loved him after about 3 months. it was great because when i told him how i felt he said he had ben feeling the same way and everytime when we were getting off the phone he had been wanting to say i love you but didnt know if i felt the same way. now we say it atleast once or twice especially before we go off to work or to sleep because we both believe that noone is promised to be there the next day but you want the last thing that we have said to each other to be i love you.
@suzu12345 (470)
• India
2 Aug 08
once upon a time in a blue moon i proposed agirl said I LOVE U..she laughed and said i m commitedd,,lolzz
after that day i never dared ,,,nor made my heart felt sorry again for smthing,,because i thought that girl was interested in me tioooo
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
2 Aug 08
it took me 1 and half year to fall in love with my girlfriend and when i realized that i am in love with her i didnt take even a minutes time. My love was getting inside my heart but i couldnt know that, once i had the feeling that yes i am really in love with her, i straight away told her.
