My first heartbreak
August 4, 2008 10:44am CST
Anyone who would like to share how he/she felt when you went through your first heartbreak?As for me, I was completely shattered,cried a lot,felt like the world is over, then I realised that this is also a part of one's life.You go through pain,you are hurt and then you think this is the end of everything.It hurts.
8 Aug 08
I'm really sorry for you. I think we all have to go through this situation once in a lifetime. At the moment, i'm still suffering from the sadness and loneliness when my first love gone. We hooked up in only the last 2 months when he came to work in our office 6 months ago. The worst is he already has a girlfriend in Singapore. Now he came back to his home with his gf. I'm still here miss him like crazy!! I don't know how long it takes to get over this. Hope that in time he'll be out of my mind and I'll be over him. Anyway, life still goes on. We need to be strong and there's always a life out there for all of us.
8 Aug 08
Somewhat same thing happened with me,he has his ex gf and they were still going on and he lied to me.You know, I thought I can never trust anyone again,felt everything is over for me,but I was wrong after some years,I met this guy,he is my fiance now.He is different from him.He loves me lot,cares for me,understands me and accepts me the way I am.When I look back now I feel that whatever has happened,it is only for the good.Jennious,I can understand your pain and what you are going through right now because I been through the same stage of heartache and pain,misery,suffered lot and cried so much.But,what I would tell you is,it is all for the better.You may not realize this right now,you may think I am being so rude,but dear,I know you will find somebody better than him.He don't deserve you.You are right,we have to move on,life doesn't stop there.So,get up girl and start a new life,beginning from today!I wish you all the best.Can we be friends?
8 Aug 08
Dear Brisk123, Somehow we got the same situation but mine is a little different. I knew he has gf (he told me). Well, at first we were like friends, we tell each other everything. Then things are out of control... It's also my fault for letting this happened. I know he don't deserve me but why i still think about him everyday? It hurts when you love someone knowing that he also loves another girl... It's been 2 months since he came back to SG, i still miss him a lot!! I deleted all our photos but can't cut contact with him. Because we are colleague, I see him online everyday .
• Shijiazhuang, China
4 Aug 08
When you love some one, it is easy to be hurt. I ever love a woman deeply. i did every thing i could do to make her happy and she was also kind to me. One day i found that her took some food i bought to invite others, which made me very angry. Perhaps i should not be angry like that, but i really unhappy.
8 Aug 08
Well, my friend,I am sorry to hear that.When you love someone so much, there is often the thing called jealousy within us.If you don't have enough faith and trust,we feel insecure.Don't be sad,why don't you just tell her that you are sorry for what you did and that you love her lot.It happens often,my friend,we fight,we argue,we say something bad and we regret later.If you really feel bad and you still love her so much and she is willing to forgive you,then my friend don't waste your time,you should go and see her and tell her how you feel.