Is fighting increases the LOVE?

India
August 5, 2008 5:02pm CST
My friend has a girlfriend. He fights regularly with his girlfriend. On that moment i feel that they are enemies and they will break up the relation. But after a day, i see them more closely as ever. Will fighting increases the LOVE?
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11 responses
@rocker21 (2717)
• India
8 Aug 08
Yes it takes one close. I fight so furious with my gf tat we talk about dying and something after that very sweet happens that nver happened before.
• India
7 Aug 08
yes my dear. But it works only between some persons. some people will not fight at all and they live their life calm and cool. some people fight always with each other and they love inside. FOr the outsiders it looks as if they are fighting,but they feel love in that fight.
@chenmeiyi (973)
• China
6 Aug 08
i am afraid my answer is no.i don't think violence can solve problem and physical abuse really hurts both physically and emotionally. maybe for some couples,it works,just like ur friends,but i cant bear this toutured relationship.
@suman2008 (671)
• India
6 Aug 08
Fighting is obviously needed in love.it brings some variety in life.but b cautious if any one of d couple is healthy or both plz dont go for fight.
@daninuk (146)
• United States
6 Aug 08
it can bring you together and pull you apart. the results depend mainly o the subject of your argument, the strength of your faith each other and the quality of your communication.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
Problems makes the relationship stronger. Why cause problems help each other to know each other more and to grow. Their is no such thing as perfect person or mr./ ms. right even relationship. They learn from this fight and they learn from each other i guess. Fights also sometimes makes it sweeter after. They hug and go for peace offering afterwards. It's part or spice of love. Anyway have a nice day!
• United States
6 Aug 08
Yes, it can. Fighting can relieve stress, air out differences, and in the end is really another form of communication. But this is really only so long as you fight fairly(for the most part) and it isn't just name-calling, screaming and abuse.
@nic_knick (741)
• China
6 Aug 08
I do not think fighting can increase all the relationship between a boy and a girl. to some extent, fighting does help the relationship. but frequent fighting is no good to the couple.
• United States
5 Aug 08
to me fighting doesn't bring two closer it might appear to you that they are closer but they arn't they are drifting away from each other every min they fight... I thought that fighting brought two people closer but it doesn't i was in a relationship that we faught consently it was an up hill battle everyday and we slowly drifted apart... I never thought that we would end up breaking up but we did and it was a bad break up... It just a mask that they wear to protect what they are really like alone..
• United States
5 Aug 08
I hate fighting and I don't feel that fighting is a good way to bond. Everyone is different, though, so I guess it's a whatever works situation! Fights, for me, are enough to make me want to leave and never return. I can tolerate heated discussions and disagreements, but fighting just doesn't do it for me.
@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Fighting in a relationship can bring two results. That is being closer together and the other one is break up. Mild fighting can stimulate affections and togetherness. But if the fight is severe the chances of break up is big.