Are you the type of person who finds it hard to say I love you?

August 5, 2008 8:35pm CST
I have to admit, sometimes I really find it so hard to say those words but there are also times where in I would love to say itas often as I want to...I don't really know what is so wrong with me...Do you have same thing as I do? Happy mylotting...
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13 responses
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
we have the same case. sometimes it is hard but sometimes not. when it comes to my friends, i can easily say i love them, but when it comes to my parents, i am having a hard time because i am shy. :(
6 Aug 08
Yah I think we do have same case...It's really hard to say I love you to somebody who is so dear to you (except for friends of course)...Saying I love you to my parents I guess is the hardesr thing to do...though they knew exactly how much I love them...
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
8 Aug 08
No its not, its really easy when its with my gf, well i dun say it to anyone else so no deal.
• United States
6 Aug 08
yes me too, its hard for me to say i love you maybe because of my pride, i really don't know it too...but for your part, all i can say is that minimize your pride and say what you feel, don't think that its corny or whatever just be yourself!
@ruby222 (4847)
6 Aug 08
No I dont find them hard words to say at all,but I do think they are words that are very important to say.To tell your family members on a regular basis that you love them is reassuring to them,and in times of trouble those words can mean a lot,but its not everyone that can easily show affection,or openly tell their loved ones what thy meant to them.
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
6 Aug 08
well sometimes,,yes..
@cncoke (439)
• China
6 Aug 08
Yes.I am the right person.It's hard for me to say I love you.Then let's arm in arm to have a try to make our parterners to say "I love you".
@mtorbe (109)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
with my parents nowadays, yes..but with my special someone no. I just don't know why I cud not say it straight infront of them that I love them so much. Maybe I'm a just a little shy, but I really love my parents, specially my mom.
@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
yeah.. im afraid that he might reject my feelings for him
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
6 Aug 08
Dear friend, One of my friend too used to have the same and when I enquired he told he cannot withstand if a negative answer comes from her. But later that girl had another lover, still he was happy to see her going happy. He love and just want to see her live happily and better. He had several times went near her but cannot say what he wanted to but at present he has a lover and they are going well.
• India
6 Aug 08
no, i am not of that type. also not many situations have forced me to do it. actually the most nervous moment came when i got rounded off in school. we had done severe mischief by beating a senior of the school. we were called to the principal office. i was thrust to the front as the leader of the rowdy boys. there i could muster up courage but not enough. finally i told that the senior desrves to be beaten for he was a very arrogant one. other teachers and principal were amazed at my statement and let us off with a warning.
@daninuk (145)
• United States
6 Aug 08
i tell my friends i love them because i've discovered that i really do. however, that is a different type of love that probably should not be compared with romantic love. romance, however, has had me on a roller coaster ride lately and i've find it difficult to tel someone i love them and really mean it.
• United States
6 Aug 08
No i find it very easy to say i love you,but there are a couple of different kinds of,the love of the heart,the love of a dear friend,the love lets some one special you know that you care and are there for them.
@agamer (45)
• United States
6 Aug 08
i think this is normal, im a guy, and the whole i love you thing just strikes me as something awkward to say, even if i do, i just think in my head it will make for a long silence, but when i say it, my gf just smiles and says it back, so i guess i worry over nothing, but atleast both of us know we arnt the only ones. one time i said this and....it lead to a party.... so u never know what the reaction is ganna be ,lol