how does the equality work in your home?..

I am an oldest too. I hate to say this, but that is the way it is. Make the best of it. You also get to do alot of things 1st. Drive, date, maybe move out. It helps make you the person you are.

Well, I, too, am the oldest. I only have one brother and he is a year younger than I am. He has responsibilities, but he doesn't do them unless my mom has to tell him literally a hundred times. It's pretty pathetic. He thinks because he has a job, he doesn't need to do his chores at home. I, on the other hand have responsibilities as well, but I don't need to be told to do them. I do them on my own. There is equality though. I'd be so mad at my parents if they gave me all these chores and none to my brother.