thanks everyone...

@chechuva (1276)
Philippines
August 6, 2008 10:07pm CST
hello friends! for couple of days i cried.. and stayed away here from mylot! i've read all the response you gave me about my relationship. im done crying and im starting to move on. i broke up with him. i wanted to reply to all the friends who gave me pieces of advice. it really overwhelmed me to know that here in mylot, i can found such good people who really have concerns and great heart to comfort me. thanks to everybody! thanks for the time and advice!
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13 responses
@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
7 Aug 08
Hello chec....hey you are so young and beautiful, believe me there will be many more tears in your wonderful life...but living and loving is what life is all about, as much as it hurts at least you are experiencing it, it would be worse to never to take the risk and never to love at all....you will find your true love just keep trying...
@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
thanks lilaclady! im not closing my doors... im still ready to take risk for love. but not for now.. honestly, im afraid to trust again, but in time when all wounds are healed.. thanks again!
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@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
7 Aug 08
chec, it is ok not to have 100% trust in anyone, you should always allow for human weakness no-one is completely above that...but we can have as much as possible but for self protection not 100%
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
Thank God you've finally ended your misery. That's really good to hear chechuva. It's about time that you prioritize your self and your feeling. It's about time for you to be happy. Moving on will take some time but, we your friends are always here for you. Good luck in your new life. HUGZ!
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@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
im actually sick right now. i have a fever.. but not because of him im starting my day thanking God and all of you for comforting me! im happy to know that i have lots of friends... thanks again!
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@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
7 Aug 08
I am so glad to see that you are back with us now. I know that you were hurting alot. I have been in that situation many times in my past. I am glad that if my words helped you in any way. I sure wish when it was happening to me, I had someont to talk to comfort me also.
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@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
i actually missed 3 days here in mylot! it still does hurt but not that much! i can smile now i appreciate your advice! thanks again!
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
I hope now your alright. In love we learn to be a better person we became stronger with life. We learn from this pain. If you cry cry so the pain will be release. You take care and take it easy girl. Life you have to go on. Prove him that you can live with out him and it's not the end of the world. The wound will heal in time. Just think that he was not meant for you you desrve a better man. God bless! God is watching you all the time and guiding you. Have a nice morning!
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@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
thanks! it's really overwhelming to hear from you guys..i really wish i could take back all the tears, coz he's not worth it. but it really does help me release everything..
7 Aug 08
Hello chechuva, You will be fine, you wait and see, you don't need people like that thats hurts you, move on with your live and keep busy just take each day as it comes and keep Mylotting and keep talking to your friends, you will be ok. Tamara
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@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
hi tamara! yes i'll be fine.. thanks for the advice and time.. im moving on and looking forward for brighter days! and about mylotting, i have 3 days to catch up!
@salonga (27969)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
Good for you! Its not the end of the world yet so why sulk. Move on and face your new life without him. For the meantime get busy and find comfort in the company of good friends while waiting for Mr. Right to come along your way. Keep your strength and stay happy!
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@mentalward (14716)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I am so sorry that you had to go through that! I know how it hurts because I have been through that myself. My son is about to go through something very similar in the very near future! I am glad that you are able to begin to move on and get this behind you. I know that you will find the right person for you in the near future. You just have to get over this completely. My husband "popped up right in front of me"! I had given up on ever finding the right person for me when, all of a sudden, there he was! I know this will happen for you as well. Just give it time, give yourself enough time to heal from what you just went through. You have a much happier life ahead of you now. You are very correct about the people here! Most of us do truly care about you and everyone else here! We are so very much like one big, caring family! You can always find people who really care about you here at myLot. It's a shame that we are all so far apart but, then again, we are just a computer away! Take care and hang in there! You've taken the first step towards a much happier life. Remember, too, that we're all right here beside you whenever you need us!
@memorable (114)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I am glad that you are doing better and have found the strength to move on you will me meet some great people along the way.
@carolscash (9503)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Hello! I am glad that you decided to get out of a relationship that wasn't good for you. I hope that you can discover that love is out there and you will find it when you are ready. You can always count on your internet friends to cheer you up and offer some advice.
@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Hi chechuva, [i]great to hear that...I know that is the best decision for a guy like him! I am sure also that you will found someone who will love you more and take care of you as well as treasure your wonderful personality! Just pamper yourself and I know with family and friends, you will be able to forget him soon![/i]
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
This is the first time I heard about your story because I am also away from mylot for about a week. Well, sorry to hear that. I know the feeling but congratulations that you were able to moved on now. Remember!! it is not the end of the world when you broke up with someone. It is just the beginning of another chapter of your life. He is not the one for you. There might be another one over there who is better than he is. Be positive and wish you all the best.
@insulin (2483)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
Well that is really good to hear that you finally feel free about all the things you've encountered past few days...A beautiful woman never cries...:-0 Always smile girl...He don't deserve you and that is the fact..his loss...:-0 Enjoy life..:-0
• United States
7 Aug 08
This is the first time I have ever met you so I guess we are not friends. I do, however want to say thank you. Kindness on the internet could prove to be one of the most important factors in the survival of the internet. Thank you for reading and good luck.