i'm losing my temper

Philippines
August 7, 2008 6:32am CST
how do you deal with a friend who had temper tantrums? now she's happy then suddenly she's very hard to talk to. sometimes i ask her to join mylot and explained it, she suddenly told me to bug off, she's always doing that, and my friends will just say to me to understand her, but we've known her since we were kids.
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@yogeshdhusa (2237)
• India
7 Aug 08
hey carloll, i think you need to understand them.. that the only way we can handle them. they might be in tension or depression. thanks enjoy :)
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
she was like that since we were in elementary, now we are all professionals and she never changed, it will now be always like this, if she had problems, we have problems too, we can't always be there to understand her, she's a grow-up now, that's why its very difficult for her to mingle with other people because of her attitude.
• India
9 Aug 08
ok, i think we cant handle them unless and untill they themself understand this problem, If se undersant that she have the behavioral issue or if some one write a note saying that "you are so nice but you dont allow you goodness to come out, you are stubborn and hard handed, if you want to be happy in your personal life and professional life you need to change," but she should not know who wrote it, because it may hurt /insult her. I have done this, you can also try.
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
yes, we can't handle them, but we have to accept her, because she is our friend, its just that sometimes, we have to make them feel that what they do was wrong and selfish.