If your love one cheated you what will you do?

Philippines
August 7, 2008 7:17pm CST
When I was inlove I were very inspired in everything that I do. I never get tired of understanding of my love one. But its sad to say that she cheated me one day. I gave my very best to keep our harmonious relationship but it is still not enough to ensure that she will not cheat me, understanding her always does not result any good outcome. I never confronted her yet bout the matter and I almost to tell her that this will not work anymore. What will I do? Do I have to understand her? Please give me your advice..
2 responses
@sagittar (107)
• Malta
8 Aug 08
In my opinion if there is true love, no one will cheat the other. Why she cheated on you, there was any reason, if there was love she wuold never cheated you. If you cheat on her, do you know what will she do? She will understands you if she knew that you went with another female? When I was the age of 18, I had one and she cheated me, and I tried to understand her and give her another chance, she did it again, and gave her another chance because I was in love with her, she say the same that she was in love with me. than she did it again, and I did not gave her a chance, and I went out with another one. She was angry because I went out with another one and tried to broke up my realtionship with the new one. 10 years after, now a days, she reencounter me in an occasion, and she told me that she is sstill in love with me lol after 10 years. I hated her, she is still in contact with me now but just virtually from internet I do not want to see her, I pity her ands that makes her angry, thats why I am still in contact with her. Love is blind, can you trust her any more? Are you sure that she is not goning to cheat you again? If you have doubts, you must stop your relationship although it will be difficult to stop it. Because with doubt you will have a hell of relationship.
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• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes thats true...i really agree with you.. thats why, as of now im still thinkng if i will continue the relationship with doubt, i know that it will not work anymore as what you have said... thank you for sharing....
• China
8 Aug 08
Yeah,some people said that two of u having a relationship haven't a good brain.Sometime you do a lot more things for maintaining.I really understand you why you are so imspired when you was in love,because you feel you're not alone,there's is someone waiting for u.But in sense,it is in vain. A girl who cheated u may not love u,because you took advantage of u at the very beginning.To be honest,someone who love u will be cherished. Listening to me,love isn't the whole part of our life,but we can't go without it.
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
sometimes we think that its not the whole part of our life if we are not in the same situation... but if you are in that place you will said that she is my life... especially if we are deeply inlove. right?