If you're in a relationship, and somebody better came along, are you 100% sure..

@sharie16 (2213)
Philippines
August 8, 2008 5:31am CST
that you would never leave your love one? or have you exprience this before? would mind to share your stories?
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@mialei23 (2386)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
Hi sharie16, It happened to me before. I thought I was sure that were meant to be but not. He just lie to me and just told me different stories and in the end, well we never work it out. I have an ex boyfriend before this guy and even beg me to come back to him that time but I didn't mind. Well, we cannot tell If things will work out fine..and we cannot tell If the one comes along will be the man/woman that we are waiting for. Maybe a right man/woman will come in right, time and place. And If this is it, don't waste a time..never let them slip away.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes, opportunities knocks to us once, so grab them when its there..LOL...
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
I think it's another adjustment, you could not see it 100%percent why cause their is no such things as perfect relationship or your both compatible. Along the way you will see the true colors especially if you didn't start as friends. Maybe your just blinded of your emotions,and feelings that you don't see it. But if I m not happy anymore of that relationship you have to get out first or you waigh things first. I still believe on the rebound stage. Good night!
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yes, i think if we are not happy anymore to the relationship we are in then, we should get out first from that rather than hurting other people's feeling.. Thanks for the post and Good night also!
@deemple (164)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
im in a miserable relationship with my husband,marrying him out of reputation.sad to say that i tried to learn loving him.but im just the one working on it,,,as the saying goes,it takes two to tango.how could i,when it's only me?....should someone better comes along,then why not?i never loose hope of waiting for my knight in a shining armour to come along and rescue me.i need someone to be with,so full of love with each other.never too late yet Sharie.as long as there's life,there's hope.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yeah you're right, As long as there's life, there's hope....You have done your part very well in saving your relationship, but its non-sense when your the only one working it out for the better, it wouldn't work at all...Hoping that someday you can find the right man for you..good luck dear!
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• United States
8 Aug 08
I would leave, life is to short to settle. It is unfair to stay with someone if you in love with someone else, or you think someone is better, they deserve to be free to find someone who really loves them. In my opinion.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
yeah..i bet thats being fair enough...we should stay faithful to the one we love, otherwise it isn't love at all.. Thanks belinda...
• United States
8 Aug 08
hmm... that's a loaded question... see, in a marriage there IS no one better. just me and the wife. that's it. 100% sure. it's why we're still married.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
Happy marriage...that's sound great..hope that would stay for a lifetime...goodluck! Thanks for the post!
@IInsanity (290)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 08
if our love is strong enough, i'm sure no one can rival his love for me. =) good question though! + for u! =) i'm kind of insecure because i'm afraid he might find someone better because we're far away and the risk of meeting someone new and better is always there.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
sorry to hear that..but really if you are far from each other, there are some insecurities that you might feel..but just PRAY to GOD! I hope that your relationship would stay intact..just always show him that distance doesn't matter and that you truly love him... Goodluck! And thanks for sharing! Happy mylotting!