The Update On The Harrassing Phone Calls

@SomeCowgirl (32270)
United States
August 9, 2008 8:31am CST
For all of those who have read my other discussions about this, I have an update and if you would like to skip ahead to my update then just look for the bolded text. For all those who are not aware of the harassing phone calls then just read the italicized directly below . I stopped being friends with four people because of their behavior towards me and their unwillingness to not only call but to come to the county I now reside. They have called me names, one of which is derogatory to the Southern half of the United States. They are all from the North and one is from Mexico. The ones I've had it out with really is only two people as the other two I just never talked to. One girl kept calling me even though I left a message that told her we were not friends. I told her to keep or lose the number, whatever she felt was fair. She called repeatedly over a few weeks period and I never answered the phone until yesterday. Yesterday I got a call from the girl to whom I had mentioned was harassing me. My fiance answered the phone and told her to stop calling or we would call the cops. He also told her that I was busy, which I was not, but happy that he had said I was. She told him that I should say it to her directly and so he handed me the phone. This girl called me a name in which starts with a B can be ended in ITCH and is also a female dog in heat. She called back twice under private number which was very smart because we do have caller Idea (can I get a duh) she called back within the next minute after we hung up on her. My mother in law answered the phone on both of the private numbers. The last time she answered she told whoever was there (which we think is this girl) that if they have nothing to say not to call. We haven't gotten a call since, and hope that we do not. I don't want to have to call the cops, but at the same time I do. I really didn't want to start this discussion but I felt I wanted the advice and reassurance that I did the right thing. These so called friends of which I used to acquaint myself with were very rude and always derogatory to me, asking me for money? Has anyone heard of the song Riot by three days grace? That's how I feel towards them. There are a number of other songs that could describe them as well. What would you do in a situation like this? I know that I did the right thing in my heart, just as I know that I am glad to be rid of such people. I would appreciate everyone's input on this but I do hope you will be serious in your answers. I hope that you have a very wonderful and lovely day as well.
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3 responses
@hellcowboy (7383)
• United States
9 Aug 08
I know she is becoming a royal pain in the backside baby,and she is so childish because she has sunk to name calling instead of being mature and just leaving us alone,you think she would have gotten the hint when you never answered her calls, and yes I answered the phone and told her to not call back,I was as nice as I could be but she said you should tell her yourself and called you the b word,after I told her you were busy,so I gave you the phone and she proceeded to continue insulting you and she would not just let it go,so I took the phone and told her not to call back it is over and that we will call the cops,and yeah she called back twice under private and both times my mother answered,and my mother even hung up on here the first time,maybe she will not call back for a while,and we definitely did the right thing,and yeah they are all guilty of name calling and constantly borrowing money,and yeah I love the song Riot by Three Days Grace,and I am also glad that you are rid of such people,I hope you gets lots of quality filled responses on this discussion and I love you.
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@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
9 Aug 08
We can only hope she will not call again. She doesn't get hints, i'm afraid. I appreciate the response babyness, I love you.
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• United States
10 Aug 08
You are right,we can only hope that she does not call back,and I always enjoy responding to you baby,because your discussions always interest me,and are always well written I love you with all my heart and soul,have a great day,good luck with all your mylotting goals,and Happy Posting Baby.
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@sudalunts (5526)
• United States
9 Aug 08
I do not know if the cops can do much in a situation like this, but you can contact your telephone company. Let them know that you are receiving these continuous phone calls and you feel as though you are being harrassed. the phone company can track these calls and put an end to them. I believe this a federal offense. Start with your phone company first, if this person calls again, do not call names or make threats, just hang up and call your phone company.
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@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
9 Aug 08
I did not call names nor did I make threats as I know such behavior would not look good on my part if a case was to be opened. I agree on calling the telephone company but the cops should also be involved at the same time as they can put a tap on the phone for us. I hope it doesn't come to that and she was scared away with the thought of us even calling, but we will see. I appreciate your response to me, and I hope that you have a very wonderful and equally as lovely day.
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@pkraj111 (2459)
• India
9 Aug 08
Go to cops. These sort of people are a menance and never be left alone
@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
9 Aug 08
Ah trust me I know she is a menace. A menace I used to call friend, and I suppose that is why I don't want to do it. Whether I know I need to or not. I appreciate the response, and I hope that you have a lovely day.
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