what would you call the perfect relationship?

@jhl930 (3607)
United States
August 10, 2008 3:41pm CST
i know that we all have dreamed of having the perfect relationship and most of us don't have the perfect relationship(no one has a perfect relationship that i know of)and i know that if i were to have the perfect relationship we'd never argue or fight or anything like that and we would both know that neither of us would ever cheat on the other and we would always make each other laugh and all of that, thats just my idea of what the perfect relationship is, but i know that we all have our own ideas of what the perfect relationship is in your opinion if you could have one, what would it include...please speak up! thanks for taking the time out of your day to look and read my discussion and i hope that i get some replies, i hope that you all have a great day and weekend! thanks!
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17 responses
11 Aug 08
The prefect relationship is based on trust and respect. There should be equality in the relationship, it isn't fair if the burden is all on one partner to do everything. The relationship should make both partners happy, it should be so they can't imagine life without each other. Actions speak louder than words; the relationship should be full of cuddles, little gifts, shared passions and fun. The big test is when things go wrong, the perfect relationship will work through anything and perhaps even be a crutch to help you out of your problems.
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• United States
11 Aug 08
Wow! You are right on and very young to have it all figured out. I am very impressed.
@zeny_zion (1284)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
theres no perfect relationship. theres always a flaws in every relationship. cause we grew up in different ways. the arguments starts with it. its a big deal. now if you want a good relationship you have to adjust both party. communication is the most important and love of course.
• United States
11 Aug 08
I think that we all have different ideas about what is a perfect relationship because we each have different needs and desires. One of the most important things to me is honesty and that is pretty much at the top of my list. Something else important to me is to be comfortable with who you are and accepting of our differences. I think enjoying life is also very important whether it is being out together or just sitting at home watching movies and having popcorn. Life is too short to worry or argue about the small things. I also think it is good to disagree occasionally because life would get pretty boring if we didn't and along with that is being able to listen and communicate your feelings.
• India
11 Aug 08
i think the perfect mate for my type is.................... intelligent,cuddlier,creative,strong,caring,supportive,funny,streetwize,tall,short,slim. loud,soft, well groomed , rugged,rich,poor,capable.
@angelface23 (2502)
• United States
11 Aug 08
being with someone who has their stuff together- a car, good job, own place. Someone who doesn't try to change me or control me. Someone who accepts that me and my daughter are a package deal. A guy who can cook and do laundry. A guy who does't blow all his money on stupid stuff.
• United States
11 Aug 08
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@tlb0822 (1414)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Honestly I think I am in a perfect relationship..it isn't absolutley perfect but to me i like exactly were I am. My fiance and I don't fight to often. We agree on almost everything, and we can make each other laugh. Since we had our daughter we have come together on everything. I mean for a perfect relationship, I would like a man who likes to help with house work. lol. My fiance is a handyman, but he will not pick up a broom, or a sweeper. So that is probably the only thing that I would change.
@samijo719 (1054)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I would love to have a relationship where nothing is misunderstood, there is always communication, there is lots of love and cudding and compliments to one another. There is always trust. Neither of you ever do anythign to hurt the others feelings or trust. But hey, we arent in a perfect world. lol
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
My husband speaks seldom and I love talking. My husband loves loud music and I don't. My husband is a very objective person but I am not. I am into arts and he into math. I nag a lot and he nods a lot. He loves food and I cook. We quarreled a lot, but we never sleep having bad feelings to each other. we don't make love everyday, but when we do it's a blast. he is the type that would rather spend the day in front of the computer, me on the other hand loves malling (which he find so boring) sometimes he smells bad, me too sometimes. We shout at each other. sometimes I curse him. he seldom says I love you. He never gave me flowers. I hate it when he peed on toilet seats. and we've been together for 8 years with 3 kids. I have learned to compromise with attitudes he cannot change. he also learned to accept things that i cannot live without. we argue, we compromise, we love. you think we're perfect? no we're not, being perfect is plain boring.
@lily3753 (390)
• China
11 Aug 08
which kingd of relationships are you mean ? for me ,I have a good relationship with my boyfriend and my little brother ,but not perfect! you know though we get very well in each other ,but still have something that we don't agree with each other ,then sometimes we even quarrel . But most time we do have a good relationshiops . and i think loyalty is the most important thing to a love relationship
@SHUGA81 (220)
• United States
11 Aug 08
There are great relationships where even though you have little arguments here and there, you are able to sit down and talk about it. You respect each other, you are honest, you are there for eacher despite life's obstacles. There are no perfect relationships. There is no such thing. Even the rich do not have the perfect relationship.
• United States
11 Aug 08
I think a good relationship would involve communicating, not lying or trying to hide anything. Being considerate of each other and supportive of each others ideas and goals. And of course good relations in the bedroom. It would be great if people could treat each other as they wished to be treated, but that never seems to happen does it?
@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
once in my life i dream to have a perfect relationship but when i thought that everything is perfect for me and my boyfriend that time it vanished. perfect relationship for me is when it comes when you didn't asked for it and when it comes you feel butterflies in your stomach, your always happy every time you are together, you share dreams and ambition and tries to reach for it with the help of one another.
• United States
11 Aug 08
The perfect relationship to me is being able to voice your view to your partner and being able to handle the truth of his/her opoion. Trusting each other and relizeing no one is perfect and its normal to disagree. Its normal to have a tiff now and then but how you handle it is based on the foundation of your relationship, Knowing and admitting when you are wrong and giving credit to when the other is right. Giving in when its important to the other person and trusting in their desire to do something. Understanding we all have our own views, likes and dislikes and respecting them as long as it is not serious damage to the other person.. to me thats what a perfect relationship is based on . Just my 2 cents
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
10 Aug 08
Well i would say to have the perfect relationship both would have to be totally "In LOvE' with each other, i mean really love that person...They would not fight & fuss ,and they would put the other above themselves..Never cheat,Never hurt the others feelings or talk down to them..Always give each other space & always please that other person...They would have to be "henpecked" to each other.....Personally I do not think there is a totally perfect relationship...I think the best you could do is have a loving relationship..I think it would be impossible to be married & never have an argument,or never have a disappointment,so "Perfect " to me would be a little unhuman really...A loving relationship would be to try for a perfect realtionship,& when disappointments come be willing to forgive & continue to love that person with all your heart...
@nut_nut (251)
10 Aug 08
is there really a perfect relationship?? we all have ideas but does it really exist? there have been couples married since school all the way into elderly but stil it doesnnt mean it was perfect. i think as close to perfect is just being happy with one another even through the tough times, knowing what you have and working together
@hotviper (129)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
i think... if you and your partner have this traits: 1. good communication 2. respect 3. being considerate 4. love 5. responsible