relationships fall off

Philippines
August 11, 2008 1:32am CST
why do some relationships fall off? it's sad to know there are so many relationships that did not work. some may take even years before they notice it. some may damage somebody's lives after. some may even break a family. can't we see it in the future so a foreseen relationships that will fall out may stop at its early age before it can damage?
3 responses
@eiram25 (1077)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Good day! Like you, I've always wondered why relationships fall off. It's quite ironic to see a couple so sweet at first but after months or years of being together,they end up appearing as strangers to each other,as if they have not shared happy and sad moments together. I'm in a relationship right now and somehow the thought of broken relationships always give me that warning to be careful. Personally, I believe maintaining relationships entail a great effort from both parties. Both the couple must work on it and try not to take anything for granted.
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
a constant communication, respect, trust maybe the fundamental ingredients of a lasting relationship.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
11 Aug 08
there may have been some wrong thing happened. or it may be both the partners were not faithful to each other. its seen that in many cases,people fall in love without seeing too much into it. but later problems crop into relationship
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
maybe they have for each other in the wrong way or reason.
@kissie34 (2296)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
In every relationship I believe that there are different experiences so, maybe it can have many reasons why relationship fall off.. One of the main reason is there is NO LOVE anymore.. I also believe that LOVE is the main cause or ingredient to have a happy and successful relationship because without LOVE, then I think both of them will not stop fighting and most of all they were just fooling their selves.. In the case of damage, I think if one person is really obsess to the one he/she love but she/he can't get the love that she/he wants then maybe it can damage his/her emotions... And this do something not good to him/her like acting so weird or losing the his/her mind.. Well, I can't really say what are some factors that they can to due to damage of LOVE.. But I'm sure the person who will going to experience this kind of damage will definitely won't be happy for the rest of his/her life.. However, he/she can gain back his/her life if he/she will learn to accept it and start a new life or when he/she found his/her true love..
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
but how about for married couples who divorce? what would their childrens life be?