Do you always involve your partner when you face personal problems?

Philippines
August 11, 2008 2:35am CST
When facing big problems, do you always involve your partner or would you rather save him or her the trouble and solve the problem all by yourself? Are you worrying that if you get your partner involve he or she might get hurt in the end?
4 responses
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Hi magojordan, [i]I always involve my husband in facing my problems, I know it's best when two heads are thinking plus I will have someone to vent out with so in a way, it will lessen the burden.. It's not fair to solve it alone, I know as a human person when I will try to hide my problems, It will affect my mood, attitude and relationship to m partner and I don't like him guessing what happen to me..LOL![/i]
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• Philippines
12 Aug 08
I agree that venting it out could make it easier for the both of you. Thanks for responding.
@IInsanity (290)
• Malaysia
11 Aug 08
it depends on what kind of problem it is. if it is a serious one i will have to tell him. even if he can't do anything, i know that he's there for me and i won't be alone to go through that by myself.
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• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Yup knowing that your partner is there is really a big help in facing problems. Thanks for responding
@valeria1 (2723)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I think if you are in a relationship takes two to tango! So I involve my husband in everything I do. We are great together in all we do.
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• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I agree that it takes two to tango, and hopefully when I get married we could be as successful as both of you. Thanks for responding
@spyjob (214)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I would choose to have my partner get involved in every problems I am facing just like I want to get involved in her problems too. We may never know but maybe our partner can help us to get out of the problems and that they can think of the best solutions. Our loved ones should know what is happening to us so it won't be hard for us to carry the burden.
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• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I agree that our partner could be the best help or even the solution to the problem. Yes I think that's why the reason they are there in the first place Thanks for responding.