Strained Relationship Why

India
August 11, 2008 4:05am CST
What can be the reasons of strained Relationship. Do u thing suspicion or doubt can be the main reasons of strained relationship. I thing where there is a mutual understanding between the partners there is no reason of any strained relationship. In usual coming unusually late in the eavning by a partner or leaving early by one partner can some time cause flutter in the relationship. If both the partners keep the other partner in confidence for any uncertainity I think we can maintain healthy relationship. Do u agree also that discarding the partner in a particular situation can also cause tension in relationship or keeping silence for a longer period can also cause irritation in the relationship. The remedy to resolve uncalled for situation in the relationship is to sit together and resolve. Best way. What is ur openion about this.Please share.
5 responses
Felicitus
@Felicitus (75)
• United Arab Emirates
16 Mar 10
Yes suspicion and doubt can be the main reasons for strained relationships. Also if one party cheats on the other then it is very difficult to put that type of relationship together because there is always suspiciion and then the relationship will be strained. As you say we should always bring things to the openl, discuss and come to a common understanding with each other. We should also not bottle up our inner feelings this is also one reason for strained relationships.
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Aug 08
it may be. there can be cheating from any one of the party. also telling luies affect many relationship in great ways. its always good to be honest in relationship. otherwise it brealks
riyasam
@riyasam (16556)
• India
11 Aug 08
any relationship has to be nurtured by love otherwise it is bound to fail.in my opinion i think the reason for strain in relationship is money.as the saying goes money is the root of all evils.
ketybhagat
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
11 Aug 08
Relationship is very very fragile if it is not nutured by love and understanding. When two minds meet, it is very difficult to adjust to each others way of thinking so this is where understanding comes in. Also, relationships have been seen to turn sour when the money problems arise. When monetary problems walk in through the door, love flies out of the window, unless the relatinship is very strong. You need a lot of love and understanding to make life and relationship work.
sanjana_aslam
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
11 Aug 08
i guess that you have highlighted almost all the possible reasons, there must always be mutual understanding between parters, it is easily said than done but it is up to the individual .. do you want to work it out or not ... i do have problems with my husbands,his long hours out with his friend & coming home drunk ... but i found the solution ... i start enjoying my alone time .. i watch the television .. have the remote in my hands (normally i dont) do my steam bath .. or whichever that can make me happy