What do you think about love?

Philippines
August 11, 2008 10:21pm CST
I have been thinking about this questions "Is love a feeling or a decision?" I came up with my an answer that love is a decision not a feeling. It is because, the brain dictates our emotions so it is more on a decision. Love is all in the mind. What about you? What do you think about love?
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@madekun (70)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 08
love.... it's quite philosophyc to talk about this. but in my mind, it's feeling that make us take a decision :)
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12 Aug 08
I think love is a feeling. Because you can`t decide to begin love somebody.
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
How sure are you that you can't decide to begin love with somebody? Isn't it that your brain dictates what you feel?
@tirror69 (43)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
for me it is a feeling at the same time a decicsion...why?you can't say that you love the certain person if you dont feel it,if the rich the point that you love the certain person, you have to deside wethier you go or not on what you feel...
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• Philippines
15 Aug 08
Right! But which one do you think is heavier in terms of love? Your feeling or your decision? Come to think of it, your brain dictates what you feel.
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
In my own opinion, LOVE is a decision to feel that you are actually loved and be able to love. As a human person, one has to choose, because we are given freedom to do the things we want. So love is therefore both, a decision and a feeling because it entails emotions and we can't have it if do not decide.
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
I certainly agree with you!
12 Aug 08
its a hard question you have there..but for me..its both..first,it is a feeling and feeling came from the brain that signals your heart that you feel love..so,its a feeling..:)after you feel it..you decide if you go on with your feeling towards a certain person..so,its a decision..both a feeling and a decision..vice versa..
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
I think decision first? Because it was your brain that worked first. Before you felt it, your brain signaled you to have that certain feeling.
@harishv (149)
• India
12 Aug 08
love is the feeling, transmitts in the form of waves from one heart to another heart. It doesnt refer only for human beings but for all the creatures existing in this world.
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
How can you be so sure that there is a wave between one heart to another heart? remember, your heart is merely for blood pumping.