should i take him back? what should i do? plz help :(

August 12, 2008 7:12pm CST
ok so heres how it is i LOVE my boyfriend weve been 2getha 2 years but i broke up wiv him recently.. i broke up wiv him bcz he mentally bullys me becz e gets jealous very easilyand is insecure and thinks that im goin to cheat on him which is so wrong becuase i am the most loyal girlfriend and friend in the whole wild world. i cant get into it detail for detail becuase there wouldnt be enuff space here and you would get bored reading it but recently i told him i had enuff of his bulls**t and i dnt want 2 go out ne more bt since den we've been talkin every day still and seeing each other the same as before n talkin 2 each other on the fone as well. its jus like before but without the title we even get "intimate" still which i no is stupid i keep thinkin he'll change still im jus hoping and hangin on dat he will.. i no im wasting my time but i jus cant let him go i LOVE HIM big time! i really do. he was my first and my first love.. so wt shud i do?
4 responses
@daxus100 (78)
13 Aug 08
I really think you know the answer NO DONT GET BACXK WITH HIM i know its really hard to hear but someone that truley loves you doesnt bully you ,you know thats true,take the view that you love him and you dont have to stop loving him or thinking about him but you cant be with him,there are so many people out there that will love you for who you are without having to bully you dont put up with it please! The other thing to remember is men that are over jealous and bully can often lead to being violent not all the time but it does happen anyway i think from what you have written you know the answer yourself
13 Aug 08
yh he is an aggressive guys.. thanks for you comment
@mscott (1924)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I know what you should not do, you should not be asking complete strangers for advice about your personal life. If you can identify the problems then you know what you need to do. perhaps you can't fix them but only you know that. Asking strangers who have no knowledge of you or the situation and only get one side to the story, yours, is not the way to continue or end a relationship.
13 Aug 08
you dont have to be rude
@vampiria (67)
• India
13 Aug 08
Oh Princess, I think you must think of yourself first if he is so insecure and get jealous which hurts you. So just let him go. He doesn't understand you, he doesn't understand your feelings, so it's better to let him go. You enjoy your life.
• United States
13 Aug 08
It sounds to me that he isn't good for anyone i don't think you should get back with him because he is not good for you mentally... If he is mentally bullying you cause he gets jealous easily thats no good some a girl like you...