Do You Find Life Sometimes Strange And Boaring ? What You Do Then ?

@Ganesh44 (5547)
India
August 13, 2008 1:46pm CST
Hey sometimes I find life as strange and boaring ....because ....i think that we spend our life getting educated and earning money ,maintaining families .....thats all....ok we enjoy inbetween but thats just for sake of enjoying.... Our dreams hardly seems coming true ......dreams makes me upset....because I have yet to achieve lot I dreamt of .....which I should have much earlier ???? When I think my dreams are pending I feel life is boaring , a rotten egg ,a strange thing....I become sad and upset....but I dont tell anybody ....this is first time I am telling to you via mylot ... How to move forward in life in such a situation.... Thanku Ganesh
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17 responses
13 Aug 08
Hi Ganesh44, Life is what you make it, if you dream too much and wait for it happen well it won't you have go out and get it and don't aim too high you'll won't get it, you have to work very hard to if you want to achive in what you want, there should not be time when you are bored. If have nothing to do just meditate, its good for you. Tamara
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
14 Aug 08
What a wonderful , great ,astonishing reply .....yes we should have pratical dreams or capacity to achieve dreams .......thanku for suggesting meditation..... its really helpful in relieving our worries ..... Wish we have reasonable/achieveable dreams that comes true soon....!!!! Thanku Ganesh
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16 Aug 08
Hi Ganesha44, Thank you very much for giving me best response and you have just made very happy thanaks. Tamara
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
16 Aug 08
Hey Infact ......you response is best..... infact ....so rather I shud be thankful for getting such a nice response ....so thanks a lot for such a great reply.... Thanku Ganesh
• United States
13 Aug 08
What a clever discussion! Sure, life can be boring at times. But I like to consider those boring moments as life's way of giving me a rest before the next big catastrophe. In the past, when I've been unhappy over the boring times, I regret not enjoying them when the waters of life get choppy and uncertain. Don't worry! If your life seems boring now, then things will get more exciting later. Perhaps the excitement will come to you in the form of a vacation or household move or job change. Sometimes, it helps to blog or journal your feelings. That way you can get the inner most thoughts out into the universe. Best of luck!
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
14 Aug 08
Thanku for appreciating my discussion.....wow what a grat reply...sometimes I also feel that instead of getting boared or recalling lost dreams why not to enjoy.....but I get afraid in doing that so that I may not loose another dream doing that ....soI am very careful these days ...taking care of all the things to ensure i may not loose some of the dreams I still have in my hands.... Yes u r right probably something new hope pleasent will come and make my life again as cheerfull as it was when I was young ...... Thanku Ganesh
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
14 Aug 08
and yes...all the best to you too !!! Thanku Ganesh
@laxmi123 (949)
• India
15 Aug 08
hello ganesh . how are you.its really. sometimes you find life as strange and boaring ... ohh. i too. all the best your future. happy mylotting. happy independent day. and advanced happy rakhi
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
15 Aug 08
Hey I am fine ....thanks for such a cheerful response ....lol.... All the best to you too...yes Wish u Happy Independence day Happy Mylotting Happy Rakhi.... Too..... Take Care cheers !!! Ganesh
• China
14 Aug 08
I think you are lucky.You also have a dream.you kwon what want to do and whatyou like to do.you can exert yourself ,just for deams come ture.i do not konwn whati like.i want to have a dream,but i do not kown what is it
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
15 Aug 08
lol...I think you are lucky dreams only looks good but causes you to work like mads......and even become one at times ha ha ha lol...do have some few dreams ,zero dream is not good also.....one day sit and dream fo yourself Thanku Ganesh
@maggim (3)
• Norway
14 Aug 08
Dot be upset because of the past. Just think forward, and all the happy things that hopefully happens to you :P :D...
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
15 Aug 08
Hey it is very easy to say....past had killed few of my dreams ...and hence hurted me from inside.....hope that it wont repeat....hope I would be able to forget them soon and move ahead....thanks for encouraging me you have good heart...... All the best .......Happy Mylotting Thanku Ganesh
@TessWhite (3147)
• United States
14 Aug 08
I'm sure we all find our lives to be rather boring at times. Thats just the way it works. Its good to have dreams, but I wouldn't obsess over them. If you aren't happy with your life, then try to change it.
@shana123 (2096)
• India
14 Aug 08
Everyone have their own wishes,dreams/goals , its one's own duty to achieve their dreams .You achive anything out of self pity or worrying or murmuring .. This is like saying im hungry but im not able to conusme food for your stomach you need to eat no one can do it.. sameway for your own goal you have achive by encouraging yourself.In this fast world you cant expect anyone to come and console your or encourage you.. Have positive thoughts filled inside you.Instead of getting discouraged we need to think on always like if we have any possiblity to get the any other chance or oppurtunity to attain our goal..Strike hard you can achieve it..No matter how much old or how many chances you have missed or failed strive strike till you reah your sucess..
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
15 Aug 08
ohh saha you really undertand things well....yes world is moving very fast ....we need to be independent .....you are right may be expectation causes all miseries ....and we feel boar and sad ....yes I will remember your words.....I will try to be independent and would not expect from outside.....I will think like I was born alone and would die alone ....same way I need to move alone ....I can go to someone but cant blame others not to come to me ..... But see GOD is always there to help you Thanku Ganesh
@marababe (2513)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
Hi ganesh44! I found this discussion on the right time! I'm currently experiencing the most boring and not really that strange days of my life. This boredom that I feel towards MY life is a generalization. It's not boring meaning that I have nothing productive to do but boring in the sense that I don't know what to do and where to start. I also feel what you are saying. I have lots of goals for myself to achieve that I don't know whether I'm actually LIVING my life anymore. I hate this feeling. Unfortunately, I have no advice yet on how to move forward cos I'm still on the verge of contemplating on what to do and when to start my goals and reach my dreams.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
15 Aug 08
ha ha ha lol see everything is done by GOD may be thats why I raised this dicussion and you responded at right times....hey infact this contemplation is boars us I dont know what we lack that we contemplate more or act less ....that is very sad ....may be because we dont want anything from this world.... Thanku Ganesh
@lingli_78 (12845)
• Australia
14 Aug 08
yes, i do feel it sometimes as well... what i do is i just try to add variety to it... life is meaningless if we don't know Jesus for me... when i feel bored or tired of this life, He will comfort me and give me strength again to move on... take care and have a nice day...
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
15 Aug 08
Ohhh great you also like me believe in GOD....infact everything comes from Jesus ....but even at times we fight with GOD because of our dreams .....but GOD is really very loving and nice ...GOD only want us to work minimum and he approves our dreams .... Yes I will also go to GOD once I feel boar or so and ask him what he is going to do for me ... Thanku Ganesh
@usus0012 (57)
• India
14 Aug 08
yes i feel bored at times .most of the times i gofor movis ,or sleep at times.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
15 Aug 08
ohhhh movies are common in us ......but yes sleep is different ....I only sleep once it comes....but yes both saves us from getting boared ...good idea Thanku Ganesh
@subha12 (18453)
• India
14 Aug 08
yes i find is boring and meaningless sometimes. it can be due to the fact that we are too much concerned about all the activities that are needed to survive,Sometimes we feel bad as we fall behind in this rat race. but i guess nothing can be changed a ssuch. how can we live without bothering to work or learn?
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
14 Aug 08
Firs of all need to say you got really cute pic in your profile ...yes we r in rat race infact.....with different objective money is common I think to all... But we need to conevert ourselves like lions and get aside from this rat race ....so that we can achieve some of our dreams too.... Thanku All the best Ganesh
@yenwie84 (1345)
• Malaysia
13 Aug 08
Maybe this is life. Nothing comes so smoothly in life. We need to face challenges and problems and we need to solve them. We study hard then we work hard. I think most of the time we have spent on studies and works. At last,we only manage to enjoy a little bit. I also feel the same way like you. But what to do. Sigh. Maybe you can try to get some interests to get yourself involve,who knows maybe you can the meaning of life. Keep on work hard for your dream,it will come true with your efforts. Cheers!
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
14 Aug 08
Yes...thanku for such a heart touching replying yes .....will try to have some really good new and interesting work and way of life ....even go through other responses all have some way out .....hope that will work..... All the best ...!!! Cheers !!!! Thanku Ganesh
@palonghorn (5486)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I have to agree with one of your other responses, life is what you make it. I never feel bored with life. I love enjoying the outdoors and nature, taking photos, scrapbooking, and working my dream job, for the forestry. Was that my dream when I was young, no, wanted to be a vet because I loved dogs. I became a volunteer firefighter 9 years ago, and loved it. I have been a wildland firefighter for 8 years now. Maybe you are focusing too much on what you wanted to be, instead of what you have become. And if you still feel that you have not reached the goals you wanted to accomplish.....do something about it, work towards making them become a reality.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
14 Aug 08
Ohhh let me congrats you and tell you are you are GOD gifted virtues.....dipression is sperading fastly and when the patients are asked by the doctor why are u sad and why u dont want to live ....most of them reply by saying "I had dreams which I struggled most part of my life but could not achieve it " I like your attitude towards life....I would have love to meet you....you are a different person with good attitude.....just see all the responses somewhere somehow all agree may be indirectly ...and u are different from all...ha ha ha lol.... All The Best Thanku Ganesh
@anita27 (90)
• India
13 Aug 08
hi ganesha!!!what u deserve you get!!if you ask for more maybe you will get disappointment from life.why dont you accept what is given to you.if you have the capacity to make dreams come true then only dream.believe in god,i'm sure he'll help you.be content with what you have.accept life as it comes you wont feel boring.accept new challenges.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
13 Aug 08
Ohh wonderful reply yes one must practical about dreaming ....if u cant achieve something you are dreaming is than its worth to leave your dreams then and there ...I would remember your response for long thanku...... Great Reply....Thanku Ganesh
• India
13 Aug 08
Thanks again Ganesh44. When we believe that our physical existence is temporary, so our dreams too. Once we die, we don't carry neither our body nor our dreams. Yes, I never said that we shouldn't be happy or sad. but I think we must look at sadness from a philosophical point of view that this sadness is going to disappear with time. Yes, in my childhood I wanted to be a war plane pilot which never materialized. When i look back a wave of sadness engulfs me. But i know soon it'll disappear as I have to focus on present. I can't miss present just by being sad about past.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
13 Aug 08
Great way out to exit your unfull filled dreams ....yes getting sad again and again about past it will kill our present and future we should accept it and try with better approach some new targets/dreams......lol Even I had dream of joining armed forces....which I could not ..... Thanku Ganesh
@samar12 (991)
• India
13 Aug 08
You always have very interesting topics to discuss about different things. Well for this topic I would say that yes everyone is in a situation like you but anyone hardly expresses himself. We all are fed up of the things that we do always but then we don't have any choice also to do something different. But I guess it's with everyone that he/she is after achieving something in life but is not able to get it even after working so hard but this is life and that's how is it. Have you ever thought of why we are here in this world, who bought us here, why we are here, what after this life, are we in this world just to have this boring life which is full of tensions, I think about all these things but then I get no answers and I just get back to my normal life. Maybe we get those feelings when we are fed up or bored, what do you think?
• India
13 Aug 08
hi Ganesh44. Pl never feel something like a rotten egg. Our physical existence is the manifestation of nature. And our soul, trapped inside our body is eternal. Dreams, enjoyment, achievement -- all of these are too temporary. Joy and sorry are just like waves in the ocean ....but temporary. What is permanent is your soul. Remember, your soul is undistured in joy and sorrow. Soul, your trueself, don't get involve in temporary phenomenon. It always looks for eternality. So, whenever you feel sad, just think that its too temporary, just a part of life. When you think of achievement, just observe how much nature allows you to gain. Don't think about past -- beacause you can bring back past. Don't bother too much about present -- because soon it'll be past. Don't be worried about future -- beacuse you've very negligible control over your future.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
13 Aug 08
Ok I accept everything but dreams are not temporary ...some dreams keep coming to you and ask you what you are doing about it . Dont you feel sad about your childhood dream still pending .....which you should have achieved much earlier ..... Thanku Ganesh