Iritated to friend

Sweden
August 15, 2008 3:20am CST
Today i was talking to my friend that we will each other,she tell me to see each other at 10am and she will call me when she going.Then now i am already ready and it almost quarter to 10am she did not call so i decided to call her and she said she still not ready and i dont like it because she said we will see each other a 10am and now she still not ready and i am ready to go to meet her.I feel iritated to wait her untill she call and said she is ready.I hope she did not said that we wills see each other at 10.Now im still waiting for her call .How about you guys,did you experience like this?? What did you felt?? DO you get angry or what?? Share your experience here.
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17 responses
@salonga (27955)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
Well, it is really very irritating to talk to people like that. Especially if she is your friend. I hate people who do not mind if they say things they do not fulfill. Letting others to wait for nothing is a very bad habit. You have all the reasons to get irritated. If I were in your place I will find another friend who has word of honor. Meanwhile, don't let her spoil you day. Just keep smiling!
• Sweden
15 Aug 08
Hmmm i dont like waiting i try to be early all the time then she do like this.I think she is like that i mean its her altittude ,Theres nothing i can do about it,she is nice friend and i use to like that.But sometimes it just felt really iritated .
@salonga (27955)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
Well no matter how nice my friend is if she lets me wait and wait, I'm sorry but goodbye to her. I have no patience with late people because I am a very prompt person.
@prettyD (123)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
That is soooo irritating! I have also experienced the same thing and it really is irritating especially when you go to the meeting place on time and your fren won't.. I am impatient to that! what i usually do is leave her..so what?
@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
17 Aug 08
that's true. the most irritating part is when your friend won't really appear at all. she or he won't even call you or text you to let you know that she won't be coming anymore. it makes me feel bad whenever a friend breaks a promise.
@valeria1 (2723)
• United States
15 Aug 08
I have a friend that I use to go out with and not one time she made on time, she was always late and of course that irritates anyone who is punctual. I just told her many times about it, but seems it is part of her personality so nothing I could do!
• Sweden
15 Aug 08
We cannot avoid like that kind of friends,sometimes it already there altittude,shes nice friend to me but sometimes i just cant help it to not get a little bit of iritates,theres nothing i can shes still my friend.
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
20 Aug 08
It always happen to me, because i always like to be early than to be late, as a result, i will end up waiting at the meeting point b4 the actual time and my fren will still be at home or worse, just woke up.. lol =D I tried to change this habit of mine, but it's hard to do so, because it's actually a good habit of mine and y should i change just because i dun wanna be there early to wait?? lol
• Indonesia
19 Aug 08
I sometimes did that to, keep my friends waiting, so when a friend keep me waiting, I have no reason to get angry, coz if I angry that doesnt seems to be fair, rite?
@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
17 Aug 08
my bestfriend did that to me before. i got so angry and confronted her. i always try to be on time since i hate it when people waits for me. so, when she did that, i talked to her and told her that i did not like the what she had done. she asked for forgiveness and since then, she respected our meetings already.
@cdparazo (5768)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
Your experience kinda reminds of an old friend since college. She is always late in our appointments and I always get irritated and short with her because she can't seem to be on time. A lot of times I really give her a piece of my mind and told her that she is being rude and inconsiderate. But to my immense chagrin, nothing still changed that next time we decided to meet again because is late, again! We'll its something that I really got to accept about her over time. I just keep on thinking what a good person she is when I start to feel irritated with her tardiness.
@ellie333 (21029)
15 Aug 08
I do have one friend who is extremely reliable at being unreliable on time so if I say 10am I know it will be 11 before she is ready and don't get frustrated by it, if it was the first time I would get annoyed but I am used to it now and she is trying to make a concious effort to become better on timekeeping. Ellie :D
@CarlHalling (3629)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 08
Your response is normal. When you agree to meet at a certain hour, you are ready at that hour. If that hour passes and nothing has happened, you feel frustrated, because you have planned for that activity, and not for another activity. Starting something new is inconvenient; so you just have to wait and things can go wrong! It is so much easier if things run on schedule. I get annoyed like you, but I try to understand: perhaps something's gone wrong and so on. I have been on both sides; I used to be a bad timekeeper, but I'm alot better now.
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
15 Aug 08
Hi swen, [i]It happens to me a lot in the past with one of my close friend at work..But, we are very close and I can always nag her and she will also always laugh at me..So, I will feel good after nagging her and expressing my feelings..I don't like to hide it but when it comes to our boss before, of course, i cannot do the same but at least i have company who feel the same and we will be expressing our disappointment then after that, no more bad feelings! Just express it![/i]
@fearie (153)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
Yup It did happen to me and Yup I got totally pissed. But thats the thing about friends right, they have some attitudes but yet, you still remain friends with them
@fearie (153)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
Yup! I certainly did.. And Yup!!b Totally pissed.. But sometimes youve got to understand that maybe something really important came up and they were too busy to call. But its not acceptable if its just nonesense reasons
@gabbana (1815)
• China
15 Aug 08
oh oh, that's bad, so how long did you have to wait? forgive her, friends should look on the bright side of each other. :)
• Malaysia
15 Aug 08
I do experience the same case. It happen when we were promise to go for tuition class together by bus. But I wait her for half an hour and I attended the class a little bit late this is because she having lunch with her boyfriend and I was waiting for her like an innocent girl at the bus stop. I really angry with her and also her boyfriend. After the bad experience, I vow that it would never happen again because I really hate people who broke their promise just because of silly reason.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
You do not have to be irritated by waiting because sometimes it do happen not with her intention to be late at ll but better to be late than never come in the place to meet you right. So, cheer up otherwise she is your friend......
• United States
15 Aug 08
many things can cause us to be running late to meet one another. She is still your firend. Just find something else to do for a little while. She will be ther very soon. Someday youmight be running late and you will like for her to be patient with you!
@NonaSaile (926)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
I can understand how you feel. If I were in your position I would also feel angry and frustrated. Usually when that happens to me, I just keep the irritation inside - I know that's not healthy, I should be making my friend aware of my feelings when she keeps me waiting. However, I still have this habit of trying to put myself in her place, like maybe there was really something that kept her from leaving. That is, if the person concerned were really a good friend that I like to keep. Meanwhile, with some people and under some circumstances, I just cancel the whole thing!