Do you believe a few querrals will make love deeper?

@lixiaos77 (1030)
Shijiazhuang, China
August 19, 2008 5:46am CST
My wife and I will quarrel 2 or 3 times a month. But we will never hurt each other too much, just quarrel about the matter we can't both agree. Usually she weep and I try to make her laugh again. This can make us know each other well and make us love each other more. Do you believe a few querrals will make love deeper?
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@ushaqwer (95)
• India
19 Aug 08
definetly few quarrels will make love deeper.it will make the life partners to understand each other.my aunt and my uncle never fight with each other,me and my sister used to think how they are able to live like that.my uncle gets adjusted to everything,he never says no to his wife.everybody is thinking that they happily,but they are really not.what you are thinking is correct.
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@flance101 (137)
• Philippines
19 Aug 08
Actually, I dont. But I dont have anything against those who believe that some misunderstanding will deepen the love between people. Maybe, at my age, I am still idealistic that I'm still hoping it doesnt have to be that way. But then again, as what I have seen from my parents, they are still so much in love with each other. Maybe there is truth to your argument. When I saw this discussions, and after reading the original argument, I smiled. I find it sweet that people are sharing things about how they try to make up with their partners after quarrels.
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@brisk123 (2826)
• India
19 Aug 08
This is really an old saying that few quarrels could bring you more closer and make each other love more than before.I am not sure about it, but whenever I quarrel or had an argument with my fiance I will sulk,I get really mad at him.But, then, we again get along with each other.In the beginning, we used to fight a lot regarding few issues.Now I have learnt to accept them.We quarrel,but we also know where to stop them/draw the line.It helps us to understand our partner in a different way
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@glay22 (512)
• Philippines
19 Aug 08
yes i do believe that.. it gives thrill and excitement to a relationship.. though you disagree on some things, it just proves that even if you have differences, you still are crazy about each other.. when you talk about it already, you would learn to love the person more and accept whoever she or he is.. despite the imperfections
@lixiaos77 (1030)
• Shijiazhuang, China
19 Aug 08
Sometimes when tell trues only when we are querral.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
19 Aug 08
Yes I do believe that quarrels makes a relationship goes deeper and knowing each other more. Why for reason that after the quarrel you both can access your feelings,your emotions, and learned from that mistakes or faults. Quarrels makes the relationship sweeter and learning life together. How we handle the problems that arises. Good night!
@clickicy (571)
• Indonesia
19 Aug 08
Yes I believe so. Several times I've quarrel with my wife... Yes, it strange but yes It is different than usual... Ummm I don't know how to describe it in words. But that's doesn't mean much, really! If I can avoid it I'd love to avoid it. Well not really avoid it. I mean before she build her emotion up, I prefer to cooling down, and after a few days latter then I start slowly to argue... I prefer this way as the tought loosing her is unwrittable doom.