Do you hate those who hate you....

India
August 21, 2008 2:17am CST
Hey guys. To be frank I really hate people who hates me. There is no use in showing our care and affection to them. Right? If someone don't want me then even I don't want them. How about you guys? Do you have the same opinion as me? Or do you really love those persons too???
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10 responses
@jnk3dfx (721)
• India
21 Aug 08
Its obvious nature of Human being to hate those who hate you and love those who love you... only few in exception have god blessed soul to go beyond and think 'If They Hate Me.. I think really I have some limitation with Me'... Tell me do you think like that.. I never in my life thought like that... Hope My response made some sense.
• India
21 Aug 08
Ya Ya of course it made sense. Even I have never thought like that. If many people around us have problem with us then we can think in that way. Do you agree??
@jnk3dfx (721)
• India
22 Aug 08
Yap If One Person told you 'You have a problem' he may be wrong, if two persons yell on you you have a problem, still they may be wrong... But if most of the people are yelling on you 'YOU REALLY HAVE A PROBLEM' ... That really means you have A Problem......
@sunjar (10)
• China
21 Aug 08
hi friend,to be frank, i don't know who hates me,hehe.just think that everybody like you. if you pay attention to that person,that means you don't really hate him or her.It's just a kind of emotion.in fact you care them. i won't choose how to face a person according his feeling about me.What i really care is his behavior but not his attitude towards me.I'll try my best to think he just does't understand me! i'll continue to show my care and affection to him because i like him.HIS attitude does't make too much difference to me . believe your minds. TRY TO LOVE THE PERSONS YOU LOVE,don't hate the person who hates you. someday they will understand ,at least not hate you
• India
21 Aug 08
Its really hard. Anyway I will try. Happy to have your response.
@Nemirae (54)
• Romania
21 Aug 08
I normally don't hate the people that hate me because i want to know and understand the reason for it; if someone hates me i would try to talk with that person and understand what it is he/she hates and if it can be mended. If not then i do not need to speak to that person again, knowing what he/she thinks of me, but i do not feel hate for them
• India
21 Aug 08
Great thoughts. Happy to have your response.
@rkrish (3003)
• India
21 Aug 08
Normally i too like that, but if i like them at first sight even if they hate me. I will try to be with them. last if they are not good at character i will say big bye bye. do you agree
• India
21 Aug 08
Ya I do agree with you. Happy to have your response..
@meiji15 (664)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
do i hate those who hate me? heck yes! particular those who are consistently questioning every move i make and putting me under a huge microscope---one wrong move and it will be like i'm the most detested person in the world. i usually fight back, though i have learned that a little patience will go a long way. but this does not mean that i will allow people to push me around. no way! my mantra is, 'if you push me, i will shove you.' (sounds like a war freak, huh?) well, sometimes, i can be a war freak. but i always try to think that these individuals may question me, even my being. however, i need not answer to them. i only answer to god and my parents. that's it.
• India
21 Aug 08
Ya we need not answer them. You are right. Happy to have your response.
@mjmlagat (3171)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
I used to feel the same way before but I come to realize that it's just a waste of emotion and life hating those people who don't even desrve to be thought of. I have been teaching myself quite effectively NEVER to entertain the thoughts of those people whom I hated in the past--and it's really working! I become more productive in my life now. Let go of your hatred, they don't even deserve a second from you..
• India
21 Aug 08
Wow!! Great response.
@vimaal (3365)
• India
21 Aug 08
hi vidhyavini, ya I used to feel the same way, a person who hate me means i want to release from that person. take care.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
21 Aug 08
Hi friend,I too have the same opinion.I dont like the people who hate me.If we love the people who hate us then we are only fools .Only saints and great people like Mother Theressa have that kind of attitude.Am I right?
@metalhalo (601)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Hate is a wasted emotion. It's a waste of time and energy on hating someone who doesn't like you. If I feel someone isn't deserving enough of my time and energy then I walk away. I don't want negative people in life..who would? I've had to walk away from certain people in my life and it had nothing to do with hate. While I may strongly dislike their choices and who they've become..I can't say that I hate them. They've chosen who they've become to be. If they're happy with that choice then so be it.
• Indonesia
21 Aug 08
Not Women Love My... My Broke Heart... huhuhu