Arguments break relationship.....

India
August 21, 2008 2:24am CST
I have heard from my friend that Argument will break relationship. Relationship here means friendship,love or family. Have you ever felt like that?? In that case what would you do? Will you stop arguing and accept what the other person say??? Or will just keep on arguing, trying to make the other person understand your point?? Share your views..
5 responses
@rkrish (3003)
• India
21 Aug 08
It depends on the individual and character. If the individual always have tendency to argue then he doesnt stops thou it is not right and fight to last. And these people used to be very strong and dominated by themselves. In other there are people who starts agruing but if they feel not worth of it and then they stops there and say the other is right. we come across many people in life and experienced too
• India
21 Aug 08
Hi friend thank god. I'm so srgumentive, if your friend is correct i would have a family broken in many pieces. I guess, the root cause of breaking a relationship is misunderstanding. Also lack of commitment plays an important role. If these are set correctly, then whether you argue or not, i think at least, can't break a relation.
@utsadetti (4593)
• United States
21 Aug 08
It depends on one of the parties at the time of argument. Argument would continuously continue and would cause break relationship if each one still have a mind of own and do not want to give in. I have ever experienced the hardest argument in my life so that I and that person had to be each other go away. But in line with time, in the end we get along well again. Possibly when we kept being each other go away for a while, we had time to gaze event of happened, why and how it all can happened. And we possibly realized there was no use continuing argument. And till now we never again remind event of that again. Another word, we have been each other forgiven although in the heart only.
@orissan (23)
• India
21 Aug 08
Arguments does not always break relationship.Arguments should not be for argument sake.It should not be irrelevant,hot and hurt your partner.It should be friendly based with ground and should end with compromise from either side.It should not create misunderstanding between the partners.
• United States
21 Aug 08
Im mainly talking about intimate relationships. In intimate or partner relationships I actually think the opposite and believe some arguing is necessary to make a relationship stronger. Now im not saying if u like someone to argue or to do it constantly. But you can develop some comfort in knowing your relationship can make it through a struggle. I dont think its how the arguement is started or what its about the breaks relationships(except or course infidelity)it is how it is resolved. Do you listen or wait to talk? Did you say something hurtful and unrelated or unnecessary? Were you willing and able to work out a comprise? In anycase i find myself in an arguement with my partener i always try to comprimise(whether she does also is another story).