Double Trouble?

Philippines
August 21, 2008 10:09pm CST
A year ago my friend Maya met this guy named Christian at the bar.. They enjoyed out door activities such as barhopping, long driving and etc... One morning Maya called up and confessed that she slept with this guy 3 months ago, but as it started to happen she got this sinking feeling because she was already engage with her long time boyfriend who is now on a business trip.. She knew it was a mistake, but she did it anyway.. Now, she is suspecting that she might be pregnant,because she never had her period for the past 2 months... But the thing she thought would not happen actually happened. The guy unexplainably disappeared from her life... What should I tell her? I dont know how to help her... Mylotters I need help!
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4 responses
@jammyt (2824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Oh my! That is one big mess. If she is, indeed, pregnant with the guy who disappeared, she's into big trouble with her fiance. One, because she betrayed his trust while they were engaged and worse, she SLEPT with another guy while engaged with him. She has to face the truth that she might lose her fiance. I hope she goes through with the pregnancy if she is pregnant, the child deserves to be born because it has no fault in whatever happened. it's going to be hard but she has to accept the fact what she did was wrong. If she's been "delayed" for 2 months, I think she should see a doctor for her peace of mind.
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• United States
22 Aug 08
thruthfully what can you help her with until the pregnancy is confirmed? go buy her a test ;) and if she is. be there for her. even if it is just to listen. she will need you alot right now.
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@slepart (207)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
I don't know why other girls keep on dating other guy knowing that they are already committed.. This is cheating.. All I can say to your friend is be strong.. Just face the consequences of her mistakes.. Maybe they were not really meant to be...
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 08
Hum ... it's quite tough ... i'm just advice you to look for the man who already dissapear .. he must responsible for this, i dunno what to help you, right now it's only the best way to do ...